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कार्य व्यवहार में स्वयं पर विश्वास बनाम दूसरो की राय

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कार्य व्यवहार में स्वयं पर विश्वास बनाम दूसरो की राय स्वयं पर विश्वास करने से पहले हमे यह देखना होगा कि हमारी बुद्धि इतनी सक्षम है या नहीं  कि हम अपने कार्य को निष्पक्ष अर्थात साक्षी  होकर देख सकते है ,या नहीं,कहीं ऐसा तो नहीं कि हम अपने गलत कार्य को भी सही साबित करते हुए स्वयं पर विश्वास कर रहे है ,इसके लिए हम दूसरो की राय या विचारों को पूरा सम्मान दे उनकी बात ध्यान से सुनकर और उसके फायदे और नुकसान सोच कर यह निर्णय लेना चाहिए कि यह कार्य सही या गलत उसमे केवल स्वयं पर विश्वास न करे,यह जिद्द का अभिमान का स्वाभाव भी हो सकता है ,इसे अपनी हार न समझे वैसे भी कहते है मैजोरिटी विन्स ,यह विचार करना चाहिए कि ज्यादातर लोग गलत नहीं हो सकते केवल कुछ ही मामलो में ऐसा हो सकता है कि उनका स्वार्थ हो फिर अपने निर्णय युक्ति युक्त लेना होता है ताकि कार्य भी ठीक हो जाये और हमे कोई विरोध भी न करे। कार्य करने का निर्णय लेने के बाद अधिक न सोचे कार्य पर ध्यान केंद्रित करे जिससे हमारी कार्यक्षमता पर असर न पड़े,अब हमे स्वयं पर विश्वास करना है कि हम सही कर रहे है। कन्फुज़ न हो अपने आपको शक्तिशाली समझ रिजल

Miracles happen every day, so never stop believing

https://www.facebook.com/TheShivaTribe/ Keep praying . Don't quit. Miracles happen every day, so never stop believing. God can change things very quickly in your life. In this time of adversity, open your heart and realise how you might have been missing gods grace. When you are experiencing difficulties, the first place to start to deal with the issues, is with yourself. Your attitude in challenging times could determine the outcome. While you might not be able to change your circumstances, you can certainly pray  to God to change your attitude. Remember that everything starts with your heart, and as such you need to pay careful attention to what is in it. Remove all vice, all greed, all evil, all the enemies that lie within. Forgive everyone and nurture love. Your life will go in the direction that you heart is set. You might need to ask yourself if you are good at heart, and if you carry any bad feelings, anger or resentment within. Reflect and recognise. See where you are

This moment is the only real moment

A writing from https://www.facebook.com/TheShivaTribe/ Most of our troubles are due to our passionate desire for and attachment to things that we misapprehend as enduring entities. We pin our happiness to people, circumstances, and things and hold onto them for dear life. We stress about the possibility of losing them when something seems amiss. Then we melt into grief when something changes ; a lay off, a breakup, or a transfer. In trying to hold on to what’s familiar, we limit our ability to experience joy in the present. A mom ent can’t possibly radiate fully when you’re suffocating it in fear. When you stop trying to grasp, own, and control the world around you, y ou give it the freedom to fulfill you without the power to destroy you . That’s why letting go is so important ; letting go is letting happiness in. Stop running after people or things. Let go off the desire for everything you don’t have. No, you won’t always get exactly what you want, but remember this: Ther

Attainments in the journey of failure to Success

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Success comes to those make a promise with the self...no matter,the no. of times they fail,they will  always rise with a higher magnitude of courage,preparation and determination. They now know their strengths and interests. They now know their areas of improvement,the areas that they still need to work on. They are more experienced now,they have a taste of success.They know what works and what doesn't. They have that inner satisfaction that comes from hard work. They now know how to convert hard work into sharp work. They have challenged the odds and risen above them,this itself adds to their confidence level and they see what others can not see,victory. They are more resourceful now.May be there are less resources,but resourcefulness means a great plan,a vision,an idea,power to convince,power to lead,power to make waste into best.A strategy to bring out best of results from the resources available. They now,know the value of interpersonal relationships and the talent

Corruption free through soul consciousness.

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In Body conscious,I may hurt people whom i think they deserve it.I may get angry on people whom i think are not fulfilling their duties well .I may insult someone whom i think to be silly.I may use harsh words to let others learn a lesson for their mistakes.I may reject someone when they don't meet my expectations.I may cheat someone or play mind games to get ahead of someone.I may criticize or judge someone who doesn't fit into my idea of being right.I may disappoint someone by being over judgmental. Body conscious tells us to be in the influence of senses,what we see,what we listen ,what we feel ,what we acquire .It binds us to our present attainments and outcome of our karmas. Therefore makes us reactive and impulsive.We forget to see that every soul is unique and special in its own way.We can't compare a fish sailing in water & a bird flying in air. Both are unique & beautiful in it's own way. We forget the values of compassion,forgiveness,kindness,m