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Soul and it's nature

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  मैं आत्मा हूं।(Soul)✨ मैं शरीर को चलाने वाली  शक्ति(energy )☀️हूं। मेरा रूप एक प्रकाशमय बिंदू(light)⭐ के समान है। मेरा  निवास भृकुटी में, मस्तक(,forehead) के बीच में है। हर विचार (thought)💭का निर्माण (create)करने वाली कर्म इन्द्रीय (sensesआंख,नाक,कान ,मुख, स्पर्श द्वारा बाहरी जगत के सम्पर्क(contact) 🗽में आने वाली संबंधों (relationships)🫂को रचने वाली , निभाने वाली शक्ति(power)मैं आत्मा हूं। मन, बुद्धि,संस्कार (mind, intellect, sanskars)मुझ आत्मा की शक्तियां हैं।💥 मन के द्वारा मैं आत्मा विचार करती हूं,सोचती हूं।(I create thoughts with my mind)💭 बुद्धि के द्वारा मैं आत्मा परखती हूं,निर्णय लेती हूं।(I judge⚖️ right /wrong and take my decisions through intellect)☑️ कर्मइन्द्रीय 👁️👄👅🗣️🙌के द्वारा मैं आत्मा कर्म करती हूं(Through my senses I do all my work)✍️ जो कर्म मैं आत्मा बार बार करती हूं,वह मुझ आत्मा का संस्कार(Strong Habits) 🧠बनता है। आत्मा के नीजी (original)संस्कार ज्ञान(knowledge)🫧,पवित्रता(purity),शांति🌪️(peace), प्रेम(love)♥️सुख(happiness)👥आनंद(bliss) शक...

Pain is inevitable but suffering is.

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  Pain is inevitable but suffering is. Anything you do, whatever you choose,be sure that there will not be instant success.You will have to work for it day in and day out, every second you have to live with it.practice/train yourself/your every cell to vibrate with your purpose . You will need to develop mental muscles before you will learn something and become a part of you, this can be a habit,a lifestyle change, behaviour change,a change in your schedule, initially it may appear to be a mess but be patient with it ,it will eventually fix in your system that it will no longer be another trouble but something that frees you of many troubles created on account of our wrong behaviours,wrong thinking patterns,wrong habits and  disbalanced lifestyles causing us suffering in the form of strained relationships,loss of interest in our work,loss of enthusiasm and happiness in life,loss in the zest of being and living a complete Life.

Believe in yourself /your choice

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  Believe in yourself /choice There will be many options  Many choices,many suggestions. Everyone has one or other things to say which is at times over whelming  Many people have many ideas /suggestions for you. How do I Choose what is best for me. By silencing your mind  You can very well analyse,judge the various options and choices presented to you and choose what is best for you by listening to your heart(inner concious) and connecting to your  higher conciousness and slowly to supreme consciousness. After making your choice, remain focused on your aim and no more get distracted by various other options and people who choose options diffrent from yours and keep moving in your choosen direction without distraction or a second thought.

Believe in your choice/purpose

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  Believe in your choice/purpose  There may appear a time ,you will find yourself alone in your path,others may appear more right/more successful/ happier than you , which is an illusion. Everyone does hardwork  Everyone faces challenges everyone faces setbacks,  everyone faces failures, They are there to make you rise,learn, work more, go ahead. No one is born perfect. They are there to make you perfect. They are there for you to take up new avenues,take up risks,leave your comfort zones.become fearless and  independent,. They are to tell you must Keep working, You must keep doing, You must keep moving ahead and you will win over your limitedness and rise beyond your own set boundaries. There is no perfect way/ choice. You make a choice work for you by your perseverance and positive attitude. Realise that Feeling alone/lost /others being more right is Just a momentarily feeling and it will pass . don't forget why you started. What made you choose this aim.what ...

पांच विकारों की प्रवेशता का कारण और निवारण

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Body concious होने से ही पांच विकारों की प्रवेशता होती है। आत्मा जब पहले पहले सृष्टि  पर आती है तो किसी का बच्चा बन, किसी के घर में पैदा होती। पहले छोटा शरीर होता है,organs छोटे है,बोल नहीं सकती। धीरे धीरे बोलने लगती है, पार्ट play करने लगती है। कर्म करने लगती है। छोटा बच्चा तो आत्म अभिमानी,(soul conscious)होता है,फूल होता है।सतोप्रधान होता है। अबोध (unaware)होता है।उस पर किसी बात का कोई प्रभाव नहीं होता। जैसे जैसे बड़ा होता है,कर्म में आता है, उसके मन पर दुनिया का प्रभाव पड़ने लगता है।और वह आत्मा अभिमानी (,soul concious)से बदल देह अभिमानीॢ‌(body concious) होने लगता है। और पांच विकारों  (काम-  lust क्रोध-Anger लोभ-Greed मोह-Attachment अहंकार-Ego)  की प्रवेशता उसके अंदर होने लगती है। और उसके कर्म विकर्म(Negative karma,Sinful actions) बनने शुरू होते हैं। आत्म अभिमानी स्थिति में जो कर्म करते हैं वे सुकर्म (good deeds, positive karma, Charitable deeds)बनते हैं। परमात्मा हमें राजयोग के माध्यम से आत्म अभिमानी होना सिखाते हैं और जीवन में रहते, कर्म करते कर्म से न्यारा होना ...

Soul's journey in world cycle

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History of human evolution in world cycle  ( soul's journey in world cycle) जब आत्मा शुरू शुरू में सृष्टि पर आई थी, तो सतोप्रधान देवता(divine being) थी जिनकी आज तक मंदिरों (temples,)में पूजा होती है। जब वे सृष्टि पर practical में  थे तब सृष्टि पर स्वर्ग था,सतयुग था। देवताएं सुखदायी(blissful )होते है,वे मीठे( sweet)होते हैं। उनमें दैवी गुण(divine virtues )होते है जैसे धैर्यता,नम्रता(humble), मधुरता,सहनशील, स्नेही(loving,),हर्षित मुख(cheerfulness),उदारचित्त(big hearted) क्षमाशील, दूरदर्शी(farsighted), खुशनुमा। When the soul initially came to the creation i e Earth there were Satopradhan deities (divine beings) who are worshipped in temples in today's time. When they were practically on Earth, there was heaven on Earth, there was satyug(Golden age) Deities are blissful, they are sweet. They have divine qualities. Like patience, humility, sweetness, tolerant, loving, cheerfulness, large hearted, forgiving, far sighted, happy. Qualities of Divine beings (देवताएं) 16 कला सम्पूर्ण,सर...

Connection with God

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  Connection with God. परमात्मा(God) मुझ आत्मा का अनादि (Eternal)अविनाशी(true) पिता (father)है। उनका रूप- ज्योति बिंदू स्वरूप  (point of light)है। वह परमधाम(sweet silence Home)का रहने वाला है। ज्ञान का सागर( ocean of knowledge )पवित्रता का सागर(ocean of purity)शांति का सागर(ocean of peace) प्रेम का सागर(ocean of love),सुख का सागर(ocean of happiness), आनंद का सागर(ocean of bliss)है। परमात्मा का कर्तव्य है मुझ आत्मा को ,5 विकारों (vices)से छुड़ाना है। पिछले किए हुए विकर्मों( negative karmas)को विनाश करना। आत्मा को पतित से पावन बनाना( purify)। सहज ज्ञान और राजयोग द्वारा ( Through Easy knowledge and Rajyoga). उनकी किरणें ( rays) निरंतर(continuously)मुझ आत्मा पर बरस रही है और मैं आत्मा पवित्र(pure) बन रही हूं। To know about soul's journey in this world cycle Click on:- Soul's journey in this world cycle connection with God. God is the eternal father of I,the soul. His form is the point of light. He is a resident of Sweet Silence Home. The ocean of knowledge, the ocean of purity The...

Experience Soul consciousness

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  Experience Soul consciousness with this small commentary. Sit back comfortably.Remove your mind slowly from all the thoughts and experience the thoughts :- मैं आत्मा हूं।(Soul)✨ मैं शरीर को चलाने वाली  शक्ति(energy )☀️हूं। मेरा रूप एक प्रकाशमय बिंदू(light)⭐ के समान है। मेरा  निवास भृकुटी में, मस्तक(,forehead) के बीच में है। हर विचार (thought)💭का निर्माण (create)करने वाली हर भावना (feelings)💌को महसूस करने वाली कर्म इन्द्रीय (sensesआंख,नाक,कान ,मुख, स्पर्श द्वारा बाहरी जगत के सम्पर्क(contact) 🗽में आने वाली संबंधों (relationships)🫂को रचने वाली , निभाने वाली शक्ति(power)मैं आत्मा हूं। मन, बुद्धि,संस्कार (mind, intellect, sanskars)मुझ आत्मा की शक्तियां हैं।💥 मन के द्वारा मैं आत्मा विचार करती हूं,सोचती हूं।(I create thoughts with my mind)💭 बुद्धि के द्वारा मैं आत्मा परखती हूं,निर्णय लेती हूं।(I judge⚖️ right /wrong and take my decisions through intellect)☑️ कर्मइन्द्रीय 👁️👄👅🗣️🙌के द्वारा मैं आत्मा कर्म करती हूं(Through my senses I do all my work)✍️ जो कर्म मैं आत्मा...

बदलाव(Transformation)संभव है .

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  We are all different. जीवन में लोग हमसे अलग होते हैं। सबकी अपनी सोच होती है, विचार होते हैं।सबके मिल कर चलने के लिए आत्मा में शक्ति होनी चाहिए।जो कि परमात्मा से योग लगाने से मिलती है। जैसे कोई बात बड़ी है या छोटी ,ये  हमारे उसे देखने के नजरिए (point of view)और हमारी आंतरिक शक्ति(inner power) पर निर्भर करता है।बात का अपना कोई वज़न(weight,) नहीं होता। हमारा उस बात को देखने का नजरिया(दृष्टिकोण )ही उस बात को छोटा या बड़ा बनाता है। अपनी आंतरिक शक्तियों(inner power)  को बढ़ा कर हम कोई भी बात से बड़े बन सकते हैं। मुश्किल बात को सहज,(easy) बना सकते हैं। समय पर सहन (tolerate)कर पाना, धैर्य (patience)रख पाना एक बहुत बड़ी शक्ति(power) है। बातों पर react नहीं करना,यह एक बहुत बड़ी शक्ति(power) है।जाने देना(It's ok). इससे हम अपनी बहुत सारी ऊर्जा(energy )को व्यर्थ जाने से बचा सकते हैं, जिसे हम अनेक प्रकार के निमार्ण (construction)के कार्य मे लगा सकते है। अपनी नई (new)अच्छी आदतों (habits)को रच सकते है। अपने सम्बन्धों को मधुर(sweet) बना सकते हैं। अपने तन और मन की healing कर सकते है। अपन...

Formula for Happy destiny

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  The books you read,the food you eat,the people you meet.♥️ It is your concentration & focus that is the source of all your growth. It is your vision & attitude towards your goal that makes it achievable. 💫 It is your problem solving ability that makes all the difference. Seeing it as an opportunity to learn & grow through life Makes all the difference. 🗨️ It is your Daily responses towards small issues of life that decides your response & victory in comparitively bigger situation in life.🎶 It is your power of detachment & unlimited disinterest towards anything disempowering that takes you towards your original nature of peace &  Happiness and make you face & create your happy destiny .🎻 Thankyou & Have a great day In God's rememberance,♥️

Vibrations

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  Vibrations Whatever you eat and drink have a strong impact on your mind.The vibrations of the one who cooks food and our vibrations when we consume it both affect our state of mind. ·         What we see,listen and read too has an affect on our subconscious mind.Taking on violent,negative news and amoral stuff inside us has an effect on our moral values as well as our concentration. ·         Before starting any work,remain in silence for 5 min  and remember God.relax  and avoid last minute rush. I am a divine soul,my original nature is peace and purity.I am a happy soul and a loveful being.I am paitient,tolerant,easy and light.I,the being of light is more powerful than any darkness that may be there outside or inside me.I am victorious jewel.

How to Practice Self-Mastery

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  Achieving self-mastery is an ongoing process, not a destination. Here are some practical steps you can take:  * Cultivate Self-Awareness: Start by journaling, meditating, or simply taking time each day to reflect on your thoughts and feelings. Ask yourself "why" you feel or act a certain way.  * Set Clear Goals and a Compelling Vision: Self-mastery is easier when you know what you're working toward. Define what success means to you and create a clear vision of the person you want to become.  * Practice Moderation and Patience: Don't try to change everything at once. Start with small, manageable goals and build momentum. Remember that backsliding is a normal part of the process, and self-kindness is key.  * Develop Healthy Habits: Focus on establishing routines that support your physical and mental well-being, such as regular exercise, a balanced diet, and sufficient sleep.  * Use Willpower Strategically: Willpower is a finite resource. Use it wisely to es...

TELL THEM.

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  If you are moved by someone, by someone's work, by their friendship, anything — TELL THEM. You don't know how much they might need that ounce of encouragement, to feel noticed, to feel like their efforts are worthwhile.  Showing gratitude to people who help you is important for maintaining positive relationships. Show those around you, the people who help you along the way of your life,  that you care and appreciate them for everything they do ♡ 𝓦𝓲𝓼𝓱𝓲𝓷𝓰 𝔂𝓸𝓾 𝓪 𝓼𝓮𝓻𝓮𝓷𝓮 𝓪𝓷𝓭 𝓳𝓸𝔂𝓯𝓾𝓵 𝓭𝓪𝔂  𝓼𝓾𝓻𝓻𝓸𝓾𝓷𝓭𝓮𝓭 𝓫𝔂 𝓽𝓱𝓮 𝓫𝓮𝓪𝓾𝓽𝔂 𝓸𝓯 𝓫𝓵𝓸𝓸𝓶𝓲𝓷𝓰 𝓻𝓸𝓼𝓮𝓼. 𝓜𝓪𝔂 𝔂𝓸𝓾𝓻 𝓭𝓪𝔂 𝓫𝓮 𝓪𝓼 𝓿𝓲𝓫𝓻𝓪𝓷𝓽 𝓪𝓷𝓭 𝓵𝓸𝓿𝓮𝓵𝔂 𝓪𝓼 𝓽𝓱𝓮𝓼𝓮 𝓻𝓸𝓼𝓮𝓼 𝓲𝓷 𝓯𝓾𝓵𝓵 𝓫𝓵𝓸𝓸𝓶 🌹🌹

Self-mastery and it's Key Components

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Self-mastery is the ability to control one's own desires, impulses, and actions in order to achieve a desired outcome or live in alignment with one's values. It goes beyond simple self-control and encompasses a holistic command over one's mental, emotional, and physical self. At its core, self-mastery is a journey of continuous self-improvement and conscious living. It's not about being a perfect person, but rather about having the discipline and awareness to make intentional choices, even when they are difficult. Key Components of Self-Mastery While often used interchangeably, self-mastery is built upon several foundational skills:  * Self-Awareness: This is the starting point. It's the ability to recognize and understand your own thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. By becoming more self-aware, you can identify your triggers, habits, and limiting beliefs.  * Self-Discipline: This is the ability to do what needs to be done, even when you don't feel like it. It...

Live

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  “I'm not telling you to make the world better...I'm just telling you to live in it.  Not just to endure it, not just to suffer it, not just to pass through it, but to live in it.  To look at it.  To try to get the picture.  To live recklessly.  To take chances.  To make your own work and take pride in it.  To seize the moment.”

I choose to remember you

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  I choose to remember you Not by how you hurt me But by how you taught me to heal Not by how you left me But by how you taught me to never abandon myself  Not by how you broke me But by how you taught me to rebuild myself  Not by how you dimmed my light   But by how you helped me to shine  Not by how you kept me trapped in a place of comfort  But by how you empowered me to leave my comfort zone  Not by how you left me feeling weak But by how you taught me what it means to be strong  Not by how you tried to control me  But by how you taught me to be free Not by who you told me who I was But by how you taught me to define myself  And above all I choose to remember you  Not by how you were unable to love me  But by how you taught me  To love myself.

We all bring different things to the world

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  We all bring different things to the world. You possess your own unique talents, which differ  to the next person. Nobody thinks quite like you do, although many  may feel inspired by your ideas. Never compare or berate yourself because you're achievements aren't in line with those of another, You are doing just fine, moving at your own pace. We don't always peak at the same time as our close friends or family. Each has their own fruitful seasons. You are an asset to many, just as you are. Don't ever try to change yourself, you are what you were always meant to be. Your own unique experiences have molded you and each experience has given you wisdom that you can now pass on to another. You are a precious child of the Universe, walking your journey at your own pace. Your uniqueness is your blue print. Don't ever wish to be different or regret your life in any way. You bring something no one else can bring, because there are no duplicates of you. You are appreciated ...

Music

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  Music gives a soul to the universe, wings to the mind, flight to the imagination, and life to everything." - Plato

Dare to dream!!

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  Dare to dream!  If you did not have the capability to make your wildest wishes come true, your mind would not have the capacity to conjure such ideas in the first place.  There is no limitation on what you can potentially achieve, except for the limitation you choose to impose on your own imagination Throughout his life, Albert Einstein would retain the intuition and the awe of a child. He never lost his sense of wonder at the magic of nature's phenomena . . .  "People like you and me never grow old," he wrote a friend later in life. " We never cease to stand like curious children before the great mystery into which we were born.” Spread positivity and it will shine you back.  "

Live life Right

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  Life is too short to waste on hate, anger or blame. I don’t want to spend my days fighting or holding grudges. Whatever time I have left, I want to use it wisely to live fully, love deeply, and find true happiness. There was a time when I let small things upset me. I cared too much about what others thought. I held onto anger and let it steal my peace. But I’ve learned that none of it really matters. Being bitter only hurts me. Blaming others doesn’t bring peace. Holding onto hate only makes the heart heavy. Now, I choose peace. I choose love. I choose to be happy with the life I have. I want to start each day with a thankful heart. I want to be around people who lift me up, not those who pull me down. Life’s beauty is in the small moments a sunny day, a kind word, a warm hug. These are the things that truly matter. I want to live with love in my heart, peace in my mind, and kindness in my words. In the end, life is about love, peace, and the memories we create. That’s the life ...

Loving me right!!

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 I never imagined myself being loved perfectly until you came into my life and loved me with all your heart. You showed me that I am more than just a brokenhearted person, that I am enough, and that I deserve all the love that you're giving me. You never treated me less; instead, you made me feel like I was all that mattered to you, and every day, you tried your best to make me happy. I want you to know that I see you. I see your efforts and all the attention that you're giving me. I see you protecting me from things that may hurt me. I see you singing for me randomly, and I fall in love every time. I see you being patient with me, even though you have all the reason to be mad at me. I see every little thing you do to help me get away from sadness. I see you in every corner, not wanting to leave my side. I hope you know how much I love being with you. I feel safe with you; I'm at peace, and I couldn't believe to myself that someone has finally come to love me right. My ...

Create the child you want

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 You create the child you want.  If you want them to be kind, show kindness.  If you want them to be smart, teach them.  If you want them to be caring, care for them.  If you want them to be a good friend, show them how you are a good friend.  Everything you pour into them they will absorb.  Every kind word, every compliment, how you describe them; all becomes their inner voice.  How you view them is how they will view themselves.  And how you treat them, is how they will treat themselves.  They will grow into everything you plant into them.

Meaning of Healing

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The moon taught me that I don't have to shine all the time to be whole,  And the flowers reminded me that even when I feel broken, I am still capable of blooming. Healing is not about being who I was before, but about loving who I'm becoming now, in the quiet, in the unfolding, moonlit, in-between ..

We’re moms. 💛

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  They say, “You’re just at home, what do you even do?” We raise little humans. We feed, clean, teach, comfort, love. We work 24/7 — no breaks, no salary, no days off. It’s not “doing nothing.” It’s doing everything. And yes, it’s exhausting. But we show up every day — because we’re moms. 💛

Choose the right one!!

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  Marry a man who wants to be a partner, not a man who just wants a wife to take care of him.   A man who wants to be a partner is willing to put the work in to make the relationship work, doesn’t need praise for being a parent or doing simple chores, and he doesn't always need mom to swoop in to save him at every diaper change, sibling argument, refusal to eat a meal-- everything.   A man who just wants a wife is a man who's only thinking about what she can do for him, and not what he needs to do for her and his family.   He’s a man who won’t bother to try with the kids because “she does it better,” and expects her to do everything around the house, only to offer criticism.   Marry a man who wants to be a partner, not a man who just wants a wife to take care of him.   Because a woman needs a partner in this life, not another child to care for.

Long to be children again?

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  "What surprises me most about humankind is that we get bored of our childhood, rush to grow up, and long to be children again.  That we lose our health to make money and then lose our money to restore our health.  That by thinking anxiously about the future, we forget the present, such that we live in neither the present nor the future.  That we live as if we'll never die and die as though we've never lived." ( ✍️

STAYING THROUGH YOUR SILENCE

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 LOVE IS WHEN THEY STAY THROUGH YOUR SILENCE You don’t always have the energy to talk. Sometimes your emotions feel too tangled, your thoughts too loud, and your heart too tired to explain. But the right kind of love — it doesn’t need explanations. It doesn’t ask for the perfect words. They just stay. Quietly. Close. They sit with you in the silence, not trying to fix anything — just letting you feel safe enough to fall apart. Because they understand that love isn’t always loud. Sometimes it’s just presence. Sometimes it’s the quiet warmth of knowing someone isn’t going to walk away — even when you’re at your quietest. And that kind of love? It teaches you that you don’t have to be okay to be loved fully.

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 As a woman, I always try to keep my image pure. I don’t want other people to have the wrong point of view about me. I always make sure I'm an example of a good person being true to herself. It’s not about pretending to be perfect, but about carrying myself with dignity and respect because I know how easily people can judge, especially women. I choose to walk in a way that reflects my values, my upbringing, and the kind of heart I have. I try to stay kind, even when others are not. I try to stay calm, even when the world feels too loud. I remind myself that I don’t need to prove anything to anyone but I still want to live in a way that makes me proud when I look back. Being a good person doesn’t mean I never get tired or feel hurt. It just means I keep trying, every day, to be better. I want people to feel peace when they think of me. I want my presence to speak louder than any words they might hear about me. I protect my character like it’s something sacred, because it is. I’d rat...

Real love is a sanctuary

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  We talk about love languages—words of affirmation, acts of service, quality time, physical touch, and receiving gifts. But before any of these can truly matter, there is one unspoken love language that forms the foundation of them all: safety. Love is not just in the words someone says, the gifts they give, or the time they spend with you. Love is in the way they make you feel—safe in their presence, safe to be yourself, safe to rest without fear. If you are living in a home where you do not feel safe, then love is not present. Because love does not hurt. Love does not control. Love does not walk on eggshells, shrink itself, or exist in survival mode. Real love is a sanctuary, not a battlefield. It is the feeling of exhaling after holding your breath for too long. It is knowing that you are seen, heard, and held—not manipulated, dismissed, or afraid.

Above everything

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 I was afraid of being rejected Until I learned to never reject myself I was afraid of being abandoned Until I learned to never abandon myself I was afraid of the opinions of others Until I learned that they held no more weight than my own I was afraid of painful endings Until I realised that they were also new beginnings I was afraid of appearing weak Until I realised how strong I truly was I was afraid of being seen as small and unimportant Until I discovered my true power and potential I was afraid of being perceived as ugly Until I learned to fully appreciate my own beauty I was afraid of failure Until I learned that it was an illusion When viewed through the eyes of love, growth and learning I was afraid of feeling low Until I learned that it was the birthplace of brilliance And where my greatest transformation occurred I was afraid of change Until I realised it was an inevitable part of life In a world full of things temporary and fleeting I was afraid of being alone Until I ...

I am worthy.

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  I used to search for my worth in somebody's eyes. But as I learned to love myself, I also realized that learning to appreciate myself is more valuable than begging for appreciation from other people. I have learned the hard way. I have learned to love myself while being alone . I have learned to appreciate myself when everybody makes me feel unwanted. I have learned to value myself when nobody else does. I have learned to see my worth when everybody says that I am worthless. I realized that not everyone can appreciate me. Not everyone can treat me right. Not everyone can see my worth. But that's okay. What's important is believing in myself that I am worthy.

Setting boundaries

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  “Child,” my grandmother once said, her voice calm like the evening breeze, “when you draw a line in the sand, the right ones will step closer. The wrong ones will leave. Let them.” Setting boundaries doesn’t make you a bad person. It makes you a person who finally values their peace. You’re not being cold. You’re being clear. You’re not too much. You’re just finally enough — for yourself. The ones who get uncomfortable when you speak your truth were always more comfortable with your silence. Let them go. You weren’t made to bend endlessly just to keep others from breaking. You weren’t made to shrink so others could stretch. My grandmother used to stir her pot and say, “Water will always find its level. And so will people. If they leave when you stop pouring, they were only there to drink.” And she was right. Protecting your energy is not a betrayal — it’s survival. It’s love in motion. It’s peace in practice. So if someone walks away because you chose yourself, let them. You’re n...

Quiet Love

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  Some loves are loud. Ours is quiet — But in that quiet, it echoes deeper than any words. It’s in the way you sit beside me in silence, your presence speaking volumes. In the way your fingers gently find mine, even when nothing needs to be said. You are the peace I didn’t know I was searching for. With you, my breaths slow down, my thoughts soften, my heart feels safe enough to unfold. There’s no pressure to be perfect with you. No need to fill the silence with noise. Because our silence is full — of understanding, of comfort, of love. You’ve shown me that real love isn’t made of grand declarations. It’s made of staying — especially when the world feels overwhelming. And that’s what you do best. You stay. And that makes all the difference. ❤️

Delayed success

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Delayed success is completely fine. perhaps, you were pressured by success itself. also by your friends' successful journey, by your parents' words, or by just the other people who are very close to their dreams. but life is not a race. if you failed today, you can still come back the next time you're ready. so, don't pressure yourself. it is okay to be late than to give up, and proving yourself that you're better but ended up failing. make those as your inspiration and just keep on fighting. you can make it. BETTER LATE THAN NEVER! you should be proud of yourself for still fighting and continuing. because eventually, you'll still have your winning time and moment. -  ✍️

Love is not loud

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I will bring Stars for you on earth!! Heaven for you , Will give (spend)my life for you. Oh!! But that will make them weak and  dependent upon you. How will they grow and learn in life? If you always Prove your love by your strength and actions,how will they become powerful and learn to love themselves and even you!! Love needs to be powerful.

Are marriages really made in heaven?

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Marriages  First few days...are heavenly. Feels like a dream come true. Feels like everything is beautiful.  roses blooming Birds chirping. Rains  Rainbows emerging. Feels like life has become a movie and we are the lead actors.Heroes and Heroines of this drama. Pictures are been taken. Ceremonies are going on. We are the centre of attraction.Everyone is watching us.All eyes on us. Nature is bestowing us with all the best things in the world. Gifts  and all abundances  from heaven  are been poured upon us.Everything is so overwhelming!! Life is playing a melodious music for us. There are smiles, happiness and celebrations going on day and night. Colors have become so bright. Sun and moon are shining brigher than ever before. Our horoscopes are showing we are the Lucky ones,stars and whole universe have come in our favours. luckier than everyone else There is unending season of festivity. All Paths are decorated with flowers. Our paths are illuminated with l...
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Secrets should never be used to protect someone else’s comfort

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  Heavy on teaching my kids that safe adults don’t ask children to keep secrets. If someone ever says, “Don’t tell your mom,” or “Don’t tell your dad,” that’s a red flag. In our house, we talk about everything. No topic is too big, no feeling is too small, and no adult is above being questioned. I’m raising kids who know they can come to me. Always. No matter what. Because secrets should never be used to protect someone else’s comfort at the cost of my child’s safety.

Right person

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  The right person won’t just love the easy parts of you. They’ll show up when your world feels too heavy to carry. When your heart is tired and your mind is messy. When you’re not your best, not even close. They won’t run when you fall apart. They’ll sit with you in the chaos and remind you you’re still lovable. Still worthy. Still enough. Love like that doesn’t wait for the perfect moment. It shows up in the middle of the storm and says, “I’m not going anywhere." Because real love isn’t looking for a flawless version of you. It’s looking for the truth. And the truth is, you deserve someone who stays.

Teaching children to live in balance

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Teach your children to appreciate and respect nature from the earliest moments of their lives. Let them walk barefoot on the earth, listen to the whispers of the trees, and gaze at the stars with wonder. Encourage them to see the magic in a blooming flower, the wisdom in the changing seasons, and the harmony in a bird’s flight. Help them understand that nature is not a resource to be used, but a living, breathing system that we are a part of—one that nurtures, heals, and sustains all life . When children grow to love and protect the natural world, they begin to understand their place within it—not as conquerors, but as caretakers. And in return, nature will provide for them—clean air to breathe, fresh water to drink, food to nourish them, and beauty to inspire their spirits. In teaching children to live in balance with the earth, we give them not just knowledge, but a future rooted in respect, gratitude and hope. ~ 

Frog climbing a tall tree

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  One day, a frog decided to climb a tall tree. As soon as he started, all the other frogs at the bottom began shouting: “Stop!” “It’s too high!” “You’ll never make it!” But the little frog kept going. Higher and higher, step by step, until he reached the top. Everyone was stunned. How did he do it? Turns out... He was deaf. He couldn’t hear a word they were saying. He thought they were cheering for him. Moral: Be deaf to negativity when you’re chasing something important. People will doubt you, discourage you, or project their fears on you. Don’t let that stop you. Keep climbing. Your belief in yourself matters more than their noise.

The Power of the Humble

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 The Power of the Humble: Philosophy of a Pawn The pawn is the simplest piece on the chessboard — and yet, in its modesty, a quiet greatness lives. It doesn’t leap like the knight, nor reach far like the bishop. It does not rule, does not command. It moves slowly, step by step, always forward — like one who chooses duty over desire. It never turns back, for there is no virtue in retreating into the past. It doesn’t rebel against its place. It accepts it with quiet dignity. And it is exactly this silent devotion to its role that makes its spirit unshakable. Each move it makes is an act of courage — not because it defies the enemy, but because it defies the fear of sacrifice. It can be taken, it may fall — but it keeps going. Because if it reaches the end… it transforms. Not out of greed, but through earned honor. Because the soul that walks straight and true across the battlefield, without abandoning its essence, has earned the right to rise. The pawn reminds us: True elevation is n...

Survival skills

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Somewhere along the way, we turned survival skills into stereotypes. We painted chores with gender and forgot they were never roles—they were responsibilities. Cooking and cleaning aren’t male or female; they are human. Science shows that when men and women share domestic labor, children grow up healthier, partnerships become more balanced, and stress levels drop. But beyond statistics is something deeper: mutual respect. Dignity. The understanding that no one is above care. Let’s teach our sons to simmer a sauce with as much pride as a spreadsheet. Let’s teach our daughters that folding laundry isn’t their destiny—it’s just life maintenance. What’s a “basic skill” you learned that changed your perspective? Drop it below. 🍽️🧼

"Boiling Frog Syndrome.”

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Imagine placing a frog into a pot of cold water, then slowly turning up the heat. At first, the frog remains calm, barely reacting to the gradual change. It quietly adjusts its body temperature, slowly adapting to the warming water, thinking, “This is still okay. I can handle this.” As the water continues to heat, the frog tolerates the rising temperature, convincing itself that it’s still bearable. It adapts little by little, accepting discomfort bit by bit, believing it can survive whatever comes next. But here lies the danger: when the water becomes unbearably hot—too hot to endure—the frog finally recognizes the urgent need to escape. It realizes, “Now, I must jump out to save myself!” Unfortunately, by this time, the frog has already exhausted its energy simply enduring the increasing heat. It’s too weak, too depleted to make the leap to safety. Despite its desire to escape, the frog is trapped. Slowly, it succumbs to the boiling water, unable to save itself. The truth is, the fro...

Frog Who Climbed the Tree

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  The Frog Who Climbed the Tree Once upon a time in a lush green forest, there lived a small, bright-eyed frog named Timi. Unlike the other frogs in his pond who were content hopping around, catching flies, and croaking all day, Timi had a dream—he wanted to climb the tallest tree in the forest. Every morning, he would stare up at the mighty Iroko tree by the water’s edge, imagining the view from its top. The wind, the clouds, the birds—he wanted to see it all. But when he told the other frogs, they laughed. "Frogs don’t climb trees," said Kalo, the oldest frog. "Our legs are made for jumping, not climbing," croaked Mina. "You’ll fall and break your back!" warned Dada. Timi was hurt by their words, but his dream burned brighter than their doubt. He tried. He slipped. He fell. Again and again. The tree bark was rough, and his webbed feet weren’t made for gripping. Still, every fall was just another lesson. He studied the ants, the lizards, even the squirrel...