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Live

 “I'm not telling you to make the world better...I'm just telling you to live in it.  Not just to endure it, not just to suffer it, not just to pass through it, but to live in it.  To look at it.  To try to get the picture.  To live recklessly.  To take chances.  To make your own work and take pride in it.  To seize the moment.”

I choose to remember you

  I choose to remember you Not by how you hurt me But by how you taught me to heal Not by how you left me But by how you taught me to never abandon myself  Not by how you broke me But by how you taught me to rebuild myself  Not by how you dimmed my light   But by how you helped me to shine  Not by how you kept me trapped in a place of comfort  But by how you empowered me to leave my comfort zone  Not by how you left me feeling weak But by how you taught me what it means to be strong  Not by how you tried to control me  But by how you taught me to be free Not by who you told me who I was But by how you taught me to define myself  And above all I choose to remember you  Not by how you were unable to love me  But by how you taught me  To love myself.

We all bring different things to the world

 We all bring different things to the world. You possess your own unique talents, which differ  to the next person. Nobody thinks quite like you do, although many  may feel inspired by your ideas. Never compare or berate yourself because you're achievements aren't in line with those of another, You are doing just fine, moving at your own pace. We don't always peak at the same time as our close friends or family. Each has their own fruitful seasons. You are an asset to many, just as you are. Don't ever try to change yourself, you are what you were always meant to be. Your own unique experiences have molded you and each experience has given you wisdom that you can now pass on to another. You are a precious child of the Universe, walking your journey at your own pace. Your uniqueness is your blue print. Don't ever wish to be different or regret your life in any way. You bring something no one else can bring, because there are no duplicates of you. You are appreciated m...

Music

 Music gives a soul to the universe, wings to the mind, flight to the imagination, and life to everything." - Plato

Dare to dream!!

 Dare to dream!  If you did not have the capability to make your wildest wishes come true, your mind would not have the capacity to conjure such ideas in the first place.  There is no limitation on what you can potentially achieve, except for the limitation you choose to impose on your own imagination Throughout his life, Albert Einstein would retain the intuition and the awe of a child. He never lost his sense of wonder at the magic of nature's phenomena . . .  "People like you and me never grow old," he wrote a friend later in life. " We never cease to stand like curious children before the great mystery into which we were born.” Spread positivity and it will shine you back.  "

Live life Right

 Life is too short to waste on hate, anger or blame. I don’t want to spend my days fighting or holding grudges. Whatever time I have left, I want to use it wisely to live fully, love deeply, and find true happiness. There was a time when I let small things upset me. I cared too much about what others thought. I held onto anger and let it steal my peace. But I’ve learned that none of it really matters. Being bitter only hurts me. Blaming others doesn’t bring peace. Holding onto hate only makes the heart heavy. Now, I choose peace. I choose love. I choose to be happy with the life I have. I want to start each day with a thankful heart. I want to be around people who lift me up, not those who pull me down. Life’s beauty is in the small moments a sunny day, a kind word, a warm hug. These are the things that truly matter. I want to live with love in my heart, peace in my mind, and kindness in my words. In the end, life is about love, peace, and the memories we create. That’s the life I...

Loving me right!!

 I never imagined myself being loved perfectly until you came into my life and loved me with all your heart. You showed me that I am more than just a brokenhearted person, that I am enough, and that I deserve all the love that you're giving me. You never treated me less; instead, you made me feel like I was all that mattered to you, and every day, you tried your best to make me happy. I want you to know that I see you. I see your efforts and all the attention that you're giving me. I see you protecting me from things that may hurt me. I see you singing for me randomly, and I fall in love every time. I see you being patient with me, even though you have all the reason to be mad at me. I see every little thing you do to help me get away from sadness. I see you in every corner, not wanting to leave my side. I hope you know how much I love being with you. I feel safe with you; I'm at peace, and I couldn't believe to myself that someone has finally come to love me right. My ...

Create the child you want

 You create the child you want.  If you want them to be kind, show kindness.  If you want them to be smart, teach them.  If you want them to be caring, care for them.  If you want them to be a good friend, show them how you are a good friend.  Everything you pour into them they will absorb.  Every kind word, every compliment, how you describe them; all becomes their inner voice.  How you view them is how they will view themselves.  And how you treat them, is how they will treat themselves.  They will grow into everything you plant into them.

Meaning of Healing

 The moon taught me that I don't have to shine all the time to be whole,  And the flowers reminded me that even when I feel broken, I am still capable of blooming. Healing is not about being who I was before, but about loving who I'm becoming now, in the quiet, in the unfolding, moonlit, in-between ..

We’re moms. 💛

 They say, “You’re just at home, what do you even do?” We raise little humans. We feed, clean, teach, comfort, love. We work 24/7 — no breaks, no salary, no days off. It’s not “doing nothing.” It’s doing everything. And yes, it’s exhausting. But we show up every day — because we’re moms. 💛

Choose the right one!!

 Marry a man who wants to be a partner, not a man who just wants a wife to take care of him.   A man who wants to be a partner is willing to put the work in to make the relationship work, doesn’t need praise for being a parent or doing simple chores, and he doesn't always need mom to swoop in to save him at every diaper change, sibling argument, refusal to eat a meal-- everything.   A man who just wants a wife is a man who's only thinking about what she can do for him, and not what he needs to do for her and his family.   He’s a man who won’t bother to try with the kids because “she does it better,” and expects her to do everything around the house, only to offer criticism.   Marry a man who wants to be a partner, not a man who just wants a wife to take care of him.   Because a woman needs a partner in this life, not another child to care for.

Long to be children again?

 "What surprises me most about humankind is that we get bored of our childhood, rush to grow up, and long to be children again.  That we lose our health to make money and then lose our money to restore our health.  That by thinking anxiously about the future, we forget the present, such that we live in neither the present nor the future.  That we live as if we'll never die and die as though we've never lived." ( ✍️

STAYING THROUGH YOUR SILENCE

 LOVE IS WHEN THEY STAY THROUGH YOUR SILENCE You don’t always have the energy to talk. Sometimes your emotions feel too tangled, your thoughts too loud, and your heart too tired to explain. But the right kind of love — it doesn’t need explanations. It doesn’t ask for the perfect words. They just stay. Quietly. Close. They sit with you in the silence, not trying to fix anything — just letting you feel safe enough to fall apart. Because they understand that love isn’t always loud. Sometimes it’s just presence. Sometimes it’s the quiet warmth of knowing someone isn’t going to walk away — even when you’re at your quietest. And that kind of love? It teaches you that you don’t have to be okay to be loved fully.

Clean Image

 As a woman, I always try to keep my image pure. I don’t want other people to have the wrong point of view about me. I always make sure I'm an example of a good person being true to herself. It’s not about pretending to be perfect, but about carrying myself with dignity and respect because I know how easily people can judge, especially women. I choose to walk in a way that reflects my values, my upbringing, and the kind of heart I have. I try to stay kind, even when others are not. I try to stay calm, even when the world feels too loud. I remind myself that I don’t need to prove anything to anyone but I still want to live in a way that makes me proud when I look back. Being a good person doesn’t mean I never get tired or feel hurt. It just means I keep trying, every day, to be better. I want people to feel peace when they think of me. I want my presence to speak louder than any words they might hear about me. I protect my character like it’s something sacred, because it is. I’d rat...

Real love is a sanctuary

 We talk about love languages—words of affirmation, acts of service, quality time, physical touch, and receiving gifts. But before any of these can truly matter, there is one unspoken love language that forms the foundation of them all: safety. Love is not just in the words someone says, the gifts they give, or the time they spend with you. Love is in the way they make you feel—safe in their presence, safe to be yourself, safe to rest without fear. If you are living in a home where you do not feel safe, then love is not present. Because love does not hurt. Love does not control. Love does not walk on eggshells, shrink itself, or exist in survival mode. Real love is a sanctuary, not a battlefield. It is the feeling of exhaling after holding your breath for too long. It is knowing that you are seen, heard, and held—not manipulated, dismissed, or afraid.

Above everything

 I was afraid of being rejected Until I learned to never reject myself I was afraid of being abandoned Until I learned to never abandon myself I was afraid of the opinions of others Until I learned that they held no more weight than my own I was afraid of painful endings Until I realised that they were also new beginnings I was afraid of appearing weak Until I realised how strong I truly was I was afraid of being seen as small and unimportant Until I discovered my true power and potential I was afraid of being perceived as ugly Until I learned to fully appreciate my own beauty I was afraid of failure Until I learned that it was an illusion When viewed through the eyes of love, growth and learning I was afraid of feeling low Until I learned that it was the birthplace of brilliance And where my greatest transformation occurred I was afraid of change Until I realised it was an inevitable part of life In a world full of things temporary and fleeting I was afraid of being alone Until I ...

I am worthy.

 I used to search for my worth in somebody's eyes. But as I learned to love myself, I also realized that learning to appreciate myself is more valuable than begging for appreciation from other people. I have learned the hard way. I have learned to love myself while being alone . I have learned to appreciate myself when everybody makes me feel unwanted. I have learned to value myself when nobody else does. I have learned to see my worth when everybody says that I am worthless. I realized that not everyone can appreciate me. Not everyone can treat me right. Not everyone can see my worth. But that's okay. What's important is believing in myself that I am worthy.

Setting boundaries

 “Child,” my grandmother once said, her voice calm like the evening breeze, “when you draw a line in the sand, the right ones will step closer. The wrong ones will leave. Let them.” Setting boundaries doesn’t make you a bad person. It makes you a person who finally values their peace. You’re not being cold. You’re being clear. You’re not too much. You’re just finally enough — for yourself. The ones who get uncomfortable when you speak your truth were always more comfortable with your silence. Let them go. You weren’t made to bend endlessly just to keep others from breaking. You weren’t made to shrink so others could stretch. My grandmother used to stir her pot and say, “Water will always find its level. And so will people. If they leave when you stop pouring, they were only there to drink.” And she was right. Protecting your energy is not a betrayal — it’s survival. It’s love in motion. It’s peace in practice. So if someone walks away because you chose yourself, let them. You’re no...

Quiet Love

 Some loves are loud. Ours is quiet — But in that quiet, it echoes deeper than any words. It’s in the way you sit beside me in silence, your presence speaking volumes. In the way your fingers gently find mine, even when nothing needs to be said. You are the peace I didn’t know I was searching for. With you, my breaths slow down, my thoughts soften, my heart feels safe enough to unfold. There’s no pressure to be perfect with you. No need to fill the silence with noise. Because our silence is full — of understanding, of comfort, of love. You’ve shown me that real love isn’t made of grand declarations. It’s made of staying — especially when the world feels overwhelming. And that’s what you do best. You stay. And that makes all the difference. ❤️

Delayed success

delayed success is completely fine. perhaps, you were pressured by success itself. also by your friends' successful journey, by your parents' words, or by just the other people who are very close to their dreams. but life is not a race. if you failed today, you can still come back the next time you're ready. so, don't pressure yourself. it is okay to be late than to give up, and proving yourself that you're better but ended up failing. make those as your inspiration and just keep on fighting. you can make it. BETTER LATE THAN NEVER! you should be proud of yourself for still fighting and continuing. because eventually, you'll still have your winning time and moment. -  ✍️

Love is not loud

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I will bring Stars for you on earth!! Heaven for you , Will give (spend)my life for you. Oh!! But that will make them weak and  dependent upon you. How will they grow and learn in life? If you always Prove your love by your strength and actions,how will they become powerful and learn to love themselves and even you!! Love needs to be powerful.

Are marriages really made in heaven?

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Marriages  First few days...are heavenly. Feels like a dream come true. Feels like everything is beautiful.  roses blooming Birds chirping. Rains  Rainbows emerging. Feels like life has become a movie and we are the lead actors.Heroes and Heroines of this drama. Pictures are been taken. Ceremonies are going on. We are the centre of attraction.Everyone is watching us.All eyes on us. Nature is bestowing us with all the best things in the world. Gifts  and all abundances  from heaven  are been poured upon us.Everything is so overwhelming!! Life is playing a melodious music for us. There are smiles, happiness and celebrations going on day and night. Colors have become so bright. Sun and moon are shining brigher than ever before. Our horoscopes are showing we are the Lucky ones,stars and whole universe have come in our favours. luckier than everyone else There is unending season of festivity. All Paths are decorated with flowers. Our paths are illuminated with l...