Spirituality in Relationships

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Loving someone means loving everything and everyone that,'that one' loves--his family,his aims/objectives,his principles.Dear Friends,Love comes with a promise by default to support and be in sync with your beloved.It is always good to have a balance in life.Obsession ,possessiveness,being over demanding,criticizing,complaining and being sensitive nature is what makes a relation vulnerable in long run.Other hand, being caring,respecting,supporting,understanding needs,giving space and freedom,expressing gratitude,appreciating,sharing  and enjoying little things in life always strengthens a relationship.For that,one has to mold self at times,tolerate,have patience,accommodate weaknesses  at times.Dear friends,we have to take time out and make healthy conversations time to time to bridge any gap that may have been created. It is good to encourage one another for being independent and for taking up the dream job or any hobby or interest to have a healthy balance in life.One has to understand that a human being's complete well being or development lies in taking care of all the faculties of mind.Physical,emotional,social,spiritual.When a person ties knot,it is a usual experience of many ,that there are conflicts and dissatisfaction with each other in later few years of marriage,which are ofcorse,due to the reasons mentioned above.Being bonded in a relationship means coming close to each other and being able to see the goodness ,automatically we start noticing weaknesses also of each other and we start change each other or become like always complaining,criticizing and over demanding with each other.Well,that's due to notion of living for each other but that's not true at all,we are not living for each other, we are actually living with each other. We are first an individual being and then only a husband or a wife.We need to grow,develop,learn and enjoy with our own self first so as to let the spark of our life remain alive forever.We need to nourish our inner child constantly with something pure and elevated and let it grow and develop & remain healthy.And when we are healthy and growing/developing always inside ,our mood remains elevated & all the unnecessary expectations and irritations just vanish.This development which used to be a natural process since our childhood should continue for life time to become a Complete,Healthy and Harmonious  personality.  

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