Understanding Relationships

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Appreciate and Value each other,note down the qualities of each other and make them
feel important for their role & contribution they make to your life.Leaving all the judgements,criticism & complaints for the things they can't do. Simply appreciate them for role they play in your life,Thank them for being there,they made your life complete.Make them realize that how much they matter,give them their worth and encourage them for all the help & support they are giving to you. 
Avoid seeing little mistakes of each other,rather be patient and tolerant. 
Have  Big heart & radiate good wishes for them and help them go beyond their weakness and train them through your examples to develop their strengths.Go beyond counting(this many times tolerated,this many times kept patience),
Go beyond give and take.I did this much, you did only this..No! You are wise,you are powerful,you have the capacity,so you are doing it, give them time, give them love, give them respect & help them overcome their imperfections. 
In a family,in a relationship where there is love there is cooperation naturally.So,they deserve your kind cooperation.Relationships are asset & are fragile, thus needs your care & attention. 
Sacrifice and being unconditional is the sign of true love where one neither
demands or expects anything in return. It neither binds self to limitlessness of 'only I' nor curbs the inner freedom and self respect of others by making them feel low for the things they can't do,rather appreciate them for contribution they  do make & make them feel valued & special on account of what they are. Accepting them as they are with all their misperfections & loving them as they are. Slowly we see them change & life becoming beautiful. 

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