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Teaching children to live in balance

 Teach your children to appreciate and respect nature from the earliest moments of their lives. Let them walk barefoot on the earth, listen to the whispers of the trees, and gaze at the stars with wonder. Encourage them to see the magic in a blooming flower, the wisdom in the changing seasons, and the harmony in a bird’s flight. Help them understand that nature is not a resource to be used, but a living, breathing system that we are a part of—one that nurtures, heals, and sustains all life. When children grow to love and protect the natural world, they begin to understand their place within it—not as conquerors, but as caretakers. And in return, nature will provide for them—clean air to breathe, fresh water to drink, food to nourish them, and beauty to inspire their spirits. In teaching children to live in balance with the earth, we give them not just knowledge, but a future rooted in respect, gratitude and hope. ~ 

Frog climbing a tall tree

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  One day, a frog decided to climb a tall tree. As soon as he started, all the other frogs at the bottom began shouting: “Stop!” “It’s too high!” “You’ll never make it!” But the little frog kept going. Higher and higher, step by step, until he reached the top. Everyone was stunned. How did he do it? Turns out... He was deaf. He couldn’t hear a word they were saying. He thought they were cheering for him. Moral: Be deaf to negativity when you’re chasing something important. People will doubt you, discourage you, or project their fears on you. Don’t let that stop you. Keep climbing. Your belief in yourself matters more than their noise.

The Power of the Humble

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 The Power of the Humble: Philosophy of a Pawn The pawn is the simplest piece on the chessboard — and yet, in its modesty, a quiet greatness lives. It doesn’t leap like the knight, nor reach far like the bishop. It does not rule, does not command. It moves slowly, step by step, always forward — like one who chooses duty over desire. It never turns back, for there is no virtue in retreating into the past. It doesn’t rebel against its place. It accepts it with quiet dignity. And it is exactly this silent devotion to its role that makes its spirit unshakable. Each move it makes is an act of courage — not because it defies the enemy, but because it defies the fear of sacrifice. It can be taken, it may fall — but it keeps going. Because if it reaches the end… it transforms. Not out of greed, but through earned honor. Because the soul that walks straight and true across the battlefield, without abandoning its essence, has earned the right to rise. The pawn reminds us: True elevation is n...

Survival skills

Somewhere along the way, we turned survival skills into stereotypes. We painted chores with gender and forgot they were never roles—they were responsibilities. Cooking and cleaning aren’t male or female; they are human. Science shows that when men and women share domestic labor, children grow up healthier, partnerships become more balanced, and stress levels drop. But beyond statistics is something deeper: mutual respect. Dignity. The understanding that no one is above care. Let’s teach our sons to simmer a sauce with as much pride as a spreadsheet. Let’s teach our daughters that folding laundry isn’t their destiny—it’s just life maintenance. What’s a “basic skill” you learned that changed your perspective? Drop it below. 🍽️🧼

"Boiling Frog Syndrome.”

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Imagine placing a frog into a pot of cold water, then slowly turning up the heat. At first, the frog remains calm, barely reacting to the gradual change. It quietly adjusts its body temperature, slowly adapting to the warming water, thinking, “This is still okay. I can handle this.” As the water continues to heat, the frog tolerates the rising temperature, convincing itself that it’s still bearable. It adapts little by little, accepting discomfort bit by bit, believing it can survive whatever comes next. But here lies the danger: when the water becomes unbearably hot—too hot to endure—the frog finally recognizes the urgent need to escape. It realizes, “Now, I must jump out to save myself!” Unfortunately, by this time, the frog has already exhausted its energy simply enduring the increasing heat. It’s too weak, too depleted to make the leap to safety. Despite its desire to escape, the frog is trapped. Slowly, it succumbs to the boiling water, unable to save itself. The truth is, the fro...

Frog Who Climbed the Tree

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  The Frog Who Climbed the Tree Once upon a time in a lush green forest, there lived a small, bright-eyed frog named Timi. Unlike the other frogs in his pond who were content hopping around, catching flies, and croaking all day, Timi had a dream—he wanted to climb the tallest tree in the forest. Every morning, he would stare up at the mighty Iroko tree by the water’s edge, imagining the view from its top. The wind, the clouds, the birds—he wanted to see it all. But when he told the other frogs, they laughed. "Frogs don’t climb trees," said Kalo, the oldest frog. "Our legs are made for jumping, not climbing," croaked Mina. "You’ll fall and break your back!" warned Dada. Timi was hurt by their words, but his dream burned brighter than their doubt. He tried. He slipped. He fell. Again and again. The tree bark was rough, and his webbed feet weren’t made for gripping. Still, every fall was just another lesson. He studied the ants, the lizards, even the squirrel...

Embrace of nature

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  Bring your children into the embrace of nature— let them run through meadows, smell the wildflowers, chase butterflies, and lie beneath the open sky. Teach them to notice the delicate bloom of a flower and the quiet strength of a tree. These moments will root in their hearts, growing into a deep love and respect for the earth, so that one day, they will cherish and protect the beauty that first took their breath away. In nurturing their bond with the wild, we grow the stewards of tomorrow.

As Educators

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 As educators, we are often our own toughest critics. The pressure to be perfect, to compare ourselves to others, and to never stop can be overwhelming. But what if we could show ourselves the same kindness we give to our students? 🫶🏼 This is a gentle reminder that you are doing your best, and that's enough. It's okay to have moments of growth, feel overwhelmed, and take breaks when needed. The more we practice self-compassion, the better we can show up for ourselves, our students, and our communities. ✨

Moms need other moms.

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  Some days, motherhood feels so heavy. But I remind myself I was never meant to carry it all alone. Moms need other moms. We need the ones who have walked through it and still show up with open hearts. The ones who say “Me too” and actually mean it. The ones who drop off coffee without asking and cry with us on the hardest days. We need the moms who are in it with us. The ones who pray for us. The ones who remind us we are not failing. The ones who help us laugh when all we want to do is cry. We also need to be that for others. To cheer on new moms. To share what we’ve learned. To listen without judging. Motherhood was never meant to be lonely. We were made to carry each other. And I am forever thankful for the moms in my life who keep showing up.

You are worth celebrating

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 You are worth celebrating— Simply because of who you are. You’ve worked hard this year. You’ve stretched your mind, challenged your heart, and kept going—even on the tough days. You’ve learned new things, asked big questions, and grown in ways that don’t always show up on paper. And that matters. You don’t need a trophy or a ribbon to prove your progress. The way you’ve stayed true to yourself, the way you’ve kept trying— That’s something to be proud of. Maybe no one saw the small moments: When you chose kindness. When you kept going after a mistake. When you spoke up with courage or stayed quiet with wisdom. But I saw. I noticed. And I’m proud. The end of a season is a perfect time to pause and recognize how far you’ve come. Not because of a finish line, But because of the journey you’ve taken to get here. You are growing into someone strong, thoughtful, and brave. And that is always worth celebrating. . . . . . .

Breakthrough

 The breakthrough comes when we stop fighting the uncertainty. When we realize that the twists we didn't plan often lead to places better than we imagined. When we learn that strength isn't about controlling outcomes but adapting to surprises.

Your loved ones teach you Beautiful Lessons.

 I choose to remember you Not by how you hurt me But by how you taught me to heal Not by how you left me But by how you taught me to never abandon myself  Not by how you broke me But by how you taught me to rebuild myself  Not by how you dimmed my light   But by how you helped me to shine  Not by how you kept me trapped in a place of comfort  But by how you empowered me to leave my comfort zone  Not by how you left me feeling weak But by how you taught me what it means to be strong  Not by how you tried to control me  But by how you taught me to be free Not by who you told me who I was But by how you taught me to define myself  And above all I choose to remember you  Not by how you were unable to love me  But by how you taught me  To love myself.

Choose what you fight for wisely.

 I once asked a very successful woman to share her secret with me.  She smiled and said to me..  “I started succeeding when I started leaving small fights for small fighters.  I stopped fighting those who gossiped about me.. I stopped fighting with my in laws.. I stopped fighting for attention.. I stopped fighting to meet public expectation of me.. I stopped fighting for my rights with stupid people.. I left such fights for those who have nothing else to fight.. And I started fighting for  my vision,  my dreams,  my ideas and  my destiny.  The day I gave up on small fights is the day I started becoming successful.” Some fights are not worth your time. Choose what you fight for wisely. ~

Find joy in the ordinary.

 Don’t wait for weekends or vacations to have fun—fill each day with laughter, curiosity, and a little adventure. Life becomes extraordinary when you find joy in the ordinary.

Never grow old!!

  ..Throughout his life, Albert Einstein would retain the intuition and the awe of a child. He never lost his sense of wonder at the magic of nature's phenomena . . .  "People like you and me never grow old," he wrote a friend later in life. "We never cease to stand like curious children before the great mystery into which we were born.”

Well mannered

 Being well mannered is such a beautiful quality. Those that choose their words with consideration for the feelings of others, those that carry themselves with humanity and modesty. It's like elegance spills from their mouth when they speak. Kindness in speech and action shows a deep kind of beauty that can’t be seen with the eyes alone, it’s felt by the heart. When someone takes the time to speak gently, to listen with care and to treat others with respect, they bring peace into every room they enter. A well-mannered person doesn't try to be better than anyone. They simply live in a way that makes others feel safe, heard and respected. They don’t raise their voice to be noticed. They don’t use harsh words to prove a point. Instead, they lift others up with every word they speak. Their presence is calming, like a soft breeze. They always make people feel important without trying too hard and they make the world around them a little softer, a little warmer. Even in moments of di...

Different things

 We all bring different things to the world. You possess your own unique talents, which differ  to the next person. Nobody thinks quite like you do, although many  may feel inspired by your ideas. Never compare or berate yourself because you're achievements aren't in line with those of another, You are doing just fine, moving at your own pace. We don't always peak at the same time as our close friends or family. Each has their own fruitful seasons. You are an asset to many, just as you are. Don't ever try to change yourself, you are what you were always meant to be. Your own unique experiences have molded you and each experience has given you wisdom that you can now pass on to another. You are a precious child of the Universe, walking your journey at your own pace. Your uniqueness is your blue print. Don't ever wish to be different or regret your life in any way. You bring something no one else can bring, because there are no duplicates of you. You are appreciated m...

Family is not about blood

 Family is not about blood. It's about who's willing to hold your hand when you need it the most.

Dare to dream!

 Dare to dream!  If you did not have the capability to make your wildest wishes come true, your mind would not have the capacity to conjure such ideas in the first place.  There is no limitation on what you can potentially achieve, except for the limitation you choose to impose on your own imagination ..

Awe of a child

Throughout his life, Albert Einstein would retain the intuition and the awe of a child. He never lost his sense of wonder at the magic of nature's phenomena . . .  "People like you and me never grow old," he wrote a friend later in life. "We never cease to stand like curious children before the great mystery into which we were born.”