Choose what you fight for wisely.

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 I once asked a very successful woman to share her secret with me. 

She smiled and said to me.. 


“I started succeeding when I started leaving small fights for small fighters. 


I stopped fighting those who gossiped about me..


I stopped fighting with my in laws..


I stopped fighting for attention..


I stopped fighting to meet public expectation of me..


I stopped fighting for my rights with stupid people..


I left such fights for those who have nothing else to fight..


And I started fighting for 

my vision, 

my dreams, 

my ideas and 

my destiny. 


The day I gave up on small fights is the day I started becoming successful.”


Some fights are not worth your time.

Choose what you fight for wisely.


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