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𝗦𝗲𝘁 𝗕𝗼𝘂𝗻𝗱𝗮𝗿𝗶𝗲𝘀 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗦𝗽𝗲𝗮𝗸 𝗨𝗽

 𝗦𝗲𝘁 𝗕𝗼𝘂𝗻𝗱𝗮𝗿𝗶𝗲𝘀 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗦𝗽𝗲𝗮𝗸 𝗨𝗽 Boundaries are not walls; they’re bridges to healthier relationships. Speak up when something bothers you because silence is often mistaken for acceptance.  Your feelings matter, and you deserve to be heard. If someone can’t respect your boundaries, they don’t respect you, and that’s not love.  Always prioritize your independence. You are a whole person first and a partner second. A strong relationship doesn’t mean giving up who you are; it means growing together while staying true to yourself. 🌿 𝙎𝙚𝙡𝙛-𝙧𝙚𝙨𝙥𝙚𝙘𝙩 𝙞𝙨 𝙣𝙤𝙣-𝙣𝙚𝙜𝙤𝙩𝙞𝙖𝙗𝙡𝙚. 𝙏𝙚𝙖𝙘𝙝 𝙥𝙚𝙤𝙥𝙡𝙚 𝙝𝙤𝙬 𝙩𝙤 𝙩𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙗𝙮 𝙬𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙩𝙤𝙡𝙚𝙧𝙖𝙩𝙚.

Trust that you’re growing

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  No matter where you are or what you’re facing, remember this:  you don’t have to have it all together to take the next step. Life isn’t about being perfect or fearless—it’s about showing up, even when you’re unsure. The smallest act of courage, the quietest moment of persistence, can shift everything.  Trust that you’re growing in ways you can’t always see, and even the messiest parts of your journey are shaping something beautiful. Keep going—you’re closer to something good than you think.

To love is to want the best for others,

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  «To love is to want the best for others,  even if they have different aspirations than ours. To love is to allow others to be happy,  even if their path is different from ours.  It is an altruistic feeling,  born of a total self-giving,  from our whole heart. Love is the absolute trust that,  no matter what, you will always be there.  Not because you owe me something,  not out of selfish possession,  but simply to be there, in silent company.»

Illusion behind "Move on"

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  One day, you’ll realize that the same person cannot be found twice in life. Not everyone is replaceable. Be careful with the hearts you touch, and even more so with the ones you wound. In today’s fast-moving world, we’ve become accustomed to thinking that everyone and everything is temporary. We glorify the idea of “moving on,” believing there’s always something better waiting just around the corner. But some connections are once-in-a-lifetime. Their essence, their understanding, the way they made you feel seen and valued—these cannot be replicated, no matter how many new people you meet. Losing such a person isn’t just losing a relationship; it’s losing a piece of yourself that only they could bring to life. We often hurt the ones who matter most, sometimes unknowingly, sometimes out of our own fears or pride. It’s easy to forget the weight of our actions or the permanence of our words when caught in the heat of the moment. We assume they’ll always be there, that there will alwa...

Average.

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 I am just an average. I’m not the most talented, the most successful, or the most remarkable person in any room. I exist in the quiet middle ground where expectations are neither sky-high nor rock-bottom. My achievements are modest, and my flaws, though not extraordinary, are plenty. Yet, there is a certain comfort in this place, a peacefulness in knowing that I don’t have to be exceptional to matter. I can find contentment in the simple routines of daily life, in small victories and setbacks that don’t define me but shape me. To be average is to be free from the pressure of perfection, a reminder that there is dignity in the everyday. In a world that glorifies extremes, there’s a quiet strength in embracing the middle. Being average doesn’t mean being invisible or uninvolved—it means I am part of the crowd, experiencing life without the need for recognition. I don’t have to live for accolades or chase the highest peaks to feel fulfilled. There’s joy in mediocrity, in knowing that...

Don't do anything to be loved.

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  "And in the end, I don't think we have to do anything to be loved. We spend our lives trying to seem prettier, smarter. But I've realized two things. Those who love us see us with their hearts and attribute qualities to us beyond what we really have. And those who don't want to love us will never be satisfied with all our efforts. Yes, I really think it's important to leave our imperfections alone. They are precious in order to understand those who see us with their hearts." ✍🏻

You are my heart, my soul, my guide.

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  If I could sit and talk with you, Beneath the sky, where dreams are true, I'd pour my heart, as rivers flow, And tell you things you already know. I'd speak of nights so long and still, Of how your absence bends my will. I'd tell you love has never waned, Though time has passed, the ache's the same. I'd whisper softly, "You’re always near, In every breath, in every tear." You linger in my quiet mind, A love so deep, no end to find. I'd tell you how the days unfold, The stories left, the dreams retold. And though you're gone, you’re here somehow— A presence felt in every vow. If I could sit and talk with you, I’d thank you for the love we knew. And in the silence, I’d still confide— You are my heart, my soul, my guide.