Posts

Your loved ones teach you Beautiful Lessons.

 I choose to remember you Not by how you hurt me But by how you taught me to heal Not by how you left me But by how you taught me to never abandon myself  Not by how you broke me But by how you taught me to rebuild myself  Not by how you dimmed my light   But by how you helped me to shine  Not by how you kept me trapped in a place of comfort  But by how you empowered me to leave my comfort zone  Not by how you left me feeling weak But by how you taught me what it means to be strong  Not by how you tried to control me  But by how you taught me to be free Not by who you told me who I was But by how you taught me to define myself  And above all I choose to remember you  Not by how you were unable to love me  But by how you taught me  To love myself.

Choose what you fight for wisely.

 I once asked a very successful woman to share her secret with me.  She smiled and said to me..  “I started succeeding when I started leaving small fights for small fighters.  I stopped fighting those who gossiped about me.. I stopped fighting with my in laws.. I stopped fighting for attention.. I stopped fighting to meet public expectation of me.. I stopped fighting for my rights with stupid people.. I left such fights for those who have nothing else to fight.. And I started fighting for  my vision,  my dreams,  my ideas and  my destiny.  The day I gave up on small fights is the day I started becoming successful.” Some fights are not worth your time. Choose what you fight for wisely. ~

Find joy in the ordinary.

 Don’t wait for weekends or vacations to have fun—fill each day with laughter, curiosity, and a little adventure. Life becomes extraordinary when you find joy in the ordinary.

Never grow old!!

  ..Throughout his life, Albert Einstein would retain the intuition and the awe of a child. He never lost his sense of wonder at the magic of nature's phenomena . . .  "People like you and me never grow old," he wrote a friend later in life. "We never cease to stand like curious children before the great mystery into which we were born.”

Well mannered

 Being well mannered is such a beautiful quality. Those that choose their words with consideration for the feelings of others, those that carry themselves with humanity and modesty. It's like elegance spills from their mouth when they speak. Kindness in speech and action shows a deep kind of beauty that can’t be seen with the eyes alone, it’s felt by the heart. When someone takes the time to speak gently, to listen with care and to treat others with respect, they bring peace into every room they enter. A well-mannered person doesn't try to be better than anyone. They simply live in a way that makes others feel safe, heard and respected. They don’t raise their voice to be noticed. They don’t use harsh words to prove a point. Instead, they lift others up with every word they speak. Their presence is calming, like a soft breeze. They always make people feel important without trying too hard and they make the world around them a little softer, a little warmer. Even in moments of di...

Different things

 We all bring different things to the world. You possess your own unique talents, which differ  to the next person. Nobody thinks quite like you do, although many  may feel inspired by your ideas. Never compare or berate yourself because you're achievements aren't in line with those of another, You are doing just fine, moving at your own pace. We don't always peak at the same time as our close friends or family. Each has their own fruitful seasons. You are an asset to many, just as you are. Don't ever try to change yourself, you are what you were always meant to be. Your own unique experiences have molded you and each experience has given you wisdom that you can now pass on to another. You are a precious child of the Universe, walking your journey at your own pace. Your uniqueness is your blue print. Don't ever wish to be different or regret your life in any way. You bring something no one else can bring, because there are no duplicates of you. You are appreciated m...

Family is not about blood

 Family is not about blood. It's about who's willing to hold your hand when you need it the most.