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𝗦𝗲𝘁 𝗕𝗼𝘂𝗻𝗱𝗮𝗿𝗶𝗲𝘀 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗦𝗽𝗲𝗮𝗸 𝗨𝗽

 𝗦𝗲𝘁 𝗕𝗼𝘂𝗻𝗱𝗮𝗿𝗶𝗲𝘀 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗦𝗽𝗲𝗮𝗸 𝗨𝗽 Boundaries are not walls; they’re bridges to healthier relationships. Speak up when something bothers you because silence is often mistaken for acceptance.  Your feelings matter, and you deserve to be heard. If someone can’t respect your boundaries, they don’t respect you, and that’s not love.  Always prioritize your independence. You are a whole person first and a partner second. A strong relationship doesn’t mean giving up who you are; it means growing together while staying true to yourself. 🌿 𝙎𝙚𝙡𝙛-𝙧𝙚𝙨𝙥𝙚𝙘𝙩 𝙞𝙨 𝙣𝙤𝙣-𝙣𝙚𝙜𝙤𝙩𝙞𝙖𝙗𝙡𝙚. 𝙏𝙚𝙖𝙘𝙝 𝙥𝙚𝙤𝙥𝙡𝙚 𝙝𝙤𝙬 𝙩𝙤 𝙩𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙗𝙮 𝙬𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙩𝙤𝙡𝙚𝙧𝙖𝙩𝙚.

Trust that you’re growing

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  No matter where you are or what you’re facing, remember this:  you don’t have to have it all together to take the next step. Life isn’t about being perfect or fearless—it’s about showing up, even when you’re unsure. The smallest act of courage, the quietest moment of persistence, can shift everything.  Trust that you’re growing in ways you can’t always see, and even the messiest parts of your journey are shaping something beautiful. Keep going—you’re closer to something good than you think.

To love is to want the best for others,

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  «To love is to want the best for others,  even if they have different aspirations than ours. To love is to allow others to be happy,  even if their path is different from ours.  It is an altruistic feeling,  born of a total self-giving,  from our whole heart. Love is the absolute trust that,  no matter what, you will always be there.  Not because you owe me something,  not out of selfish possession,  but simply to be there, in silent company.»

Illusion behind "Move on"

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  One day, you’ll realize that the same person cannot be found twice in life. Not everyone is replaceable. Be careful with the hearts you touch, and even more so with the ones you wound. In today’s fast-moving world, we’ve become accustomed to thinking that everyone and everything is temporary. We glorify the idea of “moving on,” believing there’s always something better waiting just around the corner. But some connections are once-in-a-lifetime. Their essence, their understanding, the way they made you feel seen and valued—these cannot be replicated, no matter how many new people you meet. Losing such a person isn’t just losing a relationship; it’s losing a piece of yourself that only they could bring to life. We often hurt the ones who matter most, sometimes unknowingly, sometimes out of our own fears or pride. It’s easy to forget the weight of our actions or the permanence of our words when caught in the heat of the moment. We assume they’ll always be there, that there will alwa...

Average.

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 I am just an average. I’m not the most talented, the most successful, or the most remarkable person in any room. I exist in the quiet middle ground where expectations are neither sky-high nor rock-bottom. My achievements are modest, and my flaws, though not extraordinary, are plenty. Yet, there is a certain comfort in this place, a peacefulness in knowing that I don’t have to be exceptional to matter. I can find contentment in the simple routines of daily life, in small victories and setbacks that don’t define me but shape me. To be average is to be free from the pressure of perfection, a reminder that there is dignity in the everyday. In a world that glorifies extremes, there’s a quiet strength in embracing the middle. Being average doesn’t mean being invisible or uninvolved—it means I am part of the crowd, experiencing life without the need for recognition. I don’t have to live for accolades or chase the highest peaks to feel fulfilled. There’s joy in mediocrity, in knowing that...

Don't do anything to be loved.

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  "And in the end, I don't think we have to do anything to be loved. We spend our lives trying to seem prettier, smarter. But I've realized two things. Those who love us see us with their hearts and attribute qualities to us beyond what we really have. And those who don't want to love us will never be satisfied with all our efforts. Yes, I really think it's important to leave our imperfections alone. They are precious in order to understand those who see us with their hearts." ✍🏻

You are my heart, my soul, my guide.

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  If I could sit and talk with you, Beneath the sky, where dreams are true, I'd pour my heart, as rivers flow, And tell you things you already know. I'd speak of nights so long and still, Of how your absence bends my will. I'd tell you love has never waned, Though time has passed, the ache's the same. I'd whisper softly, "You’re always near, In every breath, in every tear." You linger in my quiet mind, A love so deep, no end to find. I'd tell you how the days unfold, The stories left, the dreams retold. And though you're gone, you’re here somehow— A presence felt in every vow. If I could sit and talk with you, I’d thank you for the love we knew. And in the silence, I’d still confide— You are my heart, my soul, my guide.

Be brave. Be heard. Be you.

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Be Brave Enough to Speak Up 🗣️ One of the risks of staying quiet is letting others create a story about you.  They might think:  • You’re bored.  • You’re shy.  • You’re stuck up.  • You’re depressed.  • You’re judging them. But here’s the truth: silence can be misunderstood.  When people don’t know what’s in your heart, they make guesses. And sometimes, those guesses don’t match who you are. Your voice matters. Your thoughts matter. Speak up, even if it’s just a little. Share your feelings, your dreams, or even a simple “I’m just thinking.”  When you let others see the real you, the story becomes yours to tell. Don’t let silence write the wrong story. Be brave. Be heard. Be you. 🤍🕊️🖤

I am still full of light

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  For a long time I was led to believe that looking for the good in everything was a weakness. That it was naive and foolish to build up a world that would try to tear me down. But to look for good,  to be determined to find it,  to believe that it exists in a world  that has proved it is capable of harbouring the complete opposite… I don’t think that’s weakness and I don’t think it’s naive.  I think that’s hope. I think it’s faith. To rise from the dark, to stand before something that has tried to bury you and to say “I am still full of light”… I think that’s strength. Those who look for the good and assume the best are not doing so because they think the world is always bright and sunny and gentle. They’re doing it because if nobody looked for the light, if no-one searched for the soft edges or sought out the warmth, then the world would be perpetually cold and dark and rough. And they know that the world deserves better than that. But mostly, they’re doing it...

Play Silently, Win loudly.

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  Buy your land in silence. Build your house in silence. Then celebrate the move in style. Go out in secret. Propose in private. Then get married in front of the whole world. Let your detractors see only your reality, never your dream. Because revealing your vision attracts division. Life is like a game of chess: you don't need to speak, you act. The only time you speak is to say checkmate. So, move forward discreetly. Focus on your goals. Your successes will be your final blow. They will speak for you. Play silently, win loudly. 🙏🏻♥️ PEACE ✌🏿

I promise I'll build a home

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“I promise I'll build a home with no shouts of frustration and anger.  I promise I'll build a home with no shouts of frustration and anger. If I ever build us a home, I promise it will be more than just a place to retreat when life outside weighs heavily on our shoulders. if i ever build us a home, It will make you feel hugged the moment you open the door after a tough day, for it would be my love that welcomes you at the threshold. If I ever build us a home, I promise not to decorate it only with furniture but to fill every corner with the love. I swear you'll be able to read me like a book.  Just as I will understand yours, you will understand the entirety of me.  I'll cook what you like to eat before you leave for work  if I ever build us a home. The kitchen will be a lovingly space of laughter. You will always taste nothing but my love and dedication. You can tell me how hard the day was until your plate is clean. I swear that when I build us a home, I will allow...

IT’S TIME

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  IT’S TIME There comes a day, somewhere in the middle of every woman’s life, when Mother Nature herself stands behind us and wraps her arms around our shoulders, whispering “It’s time.” “You have taken enough now. It’s time to stop growing up, stop growing older and start growing wilder. There are adventures still waiting on you and this time, you will enjoy them with the vision of wisdom and the companionship of hindsight, and you will really let go. It’s time to stop the madness of comparison and the ridicule of schedule and conformity and start experiencing the joys that a life, free of containment and guilt, can bring.” She will shake your shoulders gently and remind you that you’ve done your bit. You’ve given too much, cared too much, you’ve suffered too much.  You’ve bought the book, as it were, and worn the t-shirt.  Worse, you’ve worn the chains and carried the weight of a burden far too heavy for your shoulders. “It’s time” she will say. “Let it go, really let i...

"I Met You."

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  💞 "Some Day..." 💞 Someday, when the pages of my life reach their final chapter, And the story of my journey is complete, I know you will be one of the most beautiful chapters ever written. A chapter so precious, so full of love, That it will outshine every other moment, Etched in the heart of my soul forever.  If I live to see that day, When time has softened the edges of memory, I will come back to these words, And open the page where it all began— The page titled, "I Met You." That moment wasn’t just a meeting, It was the beginning of something extraordinary. From that day forward, my world wasn’t the same. It was brighter, fuller, more alive, Because you walked into it and made it magical. You are more than a memory in my life; You are the heartbeat of my story. The moments we shared weren’t just chapters, They were the essence of my journey, The reason every page was worth writing.  I’ll remember the way you made me feel— Alive, cherished, and understood. I’...

Spiritual retreat Experience

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  Summarising points below of a small spiritual retreat at Madhuban:- More than place it is important what we do inside with ourselves. Loving/accepting self. Keeping ourselves happy  Healing ourselves . Release old traumas,hurt,pains and fill inside power. And there is divine/right time for everything till then we get prepared the best way for what is going to come to us as a surprise from God. Till then keep learning,keep experiencing ,making self free from all illusions.  Unconditionally love everyone and become independent. Liberate self and others of ropes of expectations and attachments Refrain yourself from Judging others without knowing  their journey. Be introvert ,no need to please everyone when you need to give time to yourself ,Listen to what your heart  wants/needs. No need to seek everyone 's approval for freedom when it comes to stepping into a new awakened state for yourself.Be selfish in that case.

Introverts

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  Introverts love a boring life: quiet mornings, calm nights, and time to think. They shut down when the world gets too loud, not because they're rude, but because they need peace. And around the right people-who bring real conversations and deep thoughts-they become surprisingly outgoing. That's when you see who they really are. — Divine souls who take full 84 births are actually introverts who are taught by Supreme Power to go out(become outgoing )after spending time with in self contemplation. This is Our balance and called following divine dictates of connecting with one self again and again and spinning the discuss of self realisation and knowing which soul I am in this world cycle. And then coming into field of action/service with this higher awareness. Without the awareness of self i.e lack of spiritual knowledge,there is lack of interest or even success in any spiritual service. Therefore order to be followed is Gyan,yog,dharna,sewa. No sewa implies lack of Gyan &Yo...

Your story is solely yours.

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  You alone own your story. Do not let another tell it, and if you find yourself in the company of one determined to rewrite your words or own your narrative, fight like hell until you hold it again.  There is little in life that is solely ours.  Your story is one of those priceless few things.  It is beyond precious.  The people meant to be In your life will only strengthen your voice, not take it from you..

The Paradox of Love and Relationships

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The Paradox of Love and Relationships" 💞 They say, "If it's meant to be, it'll happen." But someone says, "Sometimes, you have to make it happen." Because love isn’t just about destiny; It’s about effort, courage, and the willingness to fight for what you want.

Follow your own path in Love

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People will always have something to say, But only you know what your heart truly needs, What your mind believes, and what your soul craves So, follow your own path in love. Love is as unique as the people sharing it, And no amount of “rules” can define the bond you share .

Distance & Time brings Clarity

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  They say, "Never go to bed angry." But someone says, "Sometimes, it's okay to sleep on it." Because not every argument needs to be resolved immediately; Sometimes, distance and time bring clarity and understanding.

Trusting what feels right for you.

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In the end, it’s not about listening to everyone else’s advice. It’s about trusting what feels right for you. Love is as unique as the people sharing it, And no amount of “rules” can define the bond you share.

Does Real Love never hurt

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They say, "If they really loved you, they'd never hurt you." But someone says, "Love isn't perfect; it's messy and real."because people are like that. Because even the strongest love will falter at times, But what matters is how you both choose to heal and grow from the pain.

Be yourself OR Compromise

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  They say, "You should always be yourself." But someone says, "Sometimes, you have to adjust to make a relationship work." Because being yourself doesn’t mean refusing to compromise; It means finding a balance between individuality and togetherness.

Resilience

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  Water is a remarkable element, capable of withstanding even the most extreme conditions. It can't be destroyed, only transformed. When burned, it turns to vapor. When frozen, it becomes ice. But no matter what form it takes, water always returns to its original state. This resilience is a powerful lesson for us as we navigate the challenges of life. Just like water, we too can face adversity and emerge unbroken. We can bend without shattering, adapt without losing our essence. The bamboo tree is a perfect example of this resilience. It's the water within the bamboo that allows it to flex and yield to the forces of nature, without breaking. Similarly, it's the toughness within us that enables us to grow through affliction, to emerge stronger and wiser from the trials we face. Hardship may try to define us, to reduce us to our lowest point. But we must never let it succeed. We must rise above, drawing on the inner strength that lies within us. We must remember that we are t...

New me in New year

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  I'm learning to let go, to rise above the pain, To not react to every hurt, every bitter rain. I'm discovering that maturity means walking away, Not seeking revenge, but choosing a brighter day. The energy I once wasted on anger and strife, Now fuels my growth, my peace, my inner life. I'm embracing that I won't please everyone's taste, And that's okay, for I'm finding my own pace. I'm slowly learning that not reacting doesn't mean, I'm okay with the hurt, but that I'm choosing to be serene. I'm taking the lesson, rising above the fray, Choosing peace of mind, every single day. I'm breaking free from drama, fake connections, and pain, Embracing my worth, my enough, my inner gain. I'm finding my voice, my strength, my inner might, Learning to respond, not react, to the darkness of night. I'm discovering that silence can speak volumes loud, That sometimes, not saying a word, says everything, proud. I'm taking back control,...

You look like your mother.

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  “You look like your mother.” But do I have her heart? Kind and forgiving, Open to all. Do I have her courage? Carrying on through hardships, With burdens on her shoulders. Do I have her strength? Knocked down each day, Yet standing tall with a brave face. Do I have her smile? The one that eases us, And shields us from the world's cruelty. Do I have her wisdom? Knowing when to speak, And when to stay silent, Navigating life's stormy seas With a steady hand. Do I have her patience? Enduring life's trials with calm, Embracing each moment With grace and poise. Do I have her love? Unconditional, A beacon of light In the darkest of times. You say I look like my mother, But I hope I carry her spirit, In every step I take, In every choice I make, In every moment of my life. ✍🏻

Apologizing: A Gesture of Love and Respect

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  Apologizing: A Gesture of Love and Respect Saying sorry doesn't necessarily mean I'm at fault, Nor does it imply I'm wrong, and you're absolutely right. It simply means that our bond, our connection, and our tie, Are more precious to me than my pride, my ego, or my need to justify. When I apologize, I'm choosing to put our relationship first, To prioritize the love and respect we share, and to nurture our trust. It's a gesture of humility, a sign of my commitment to you, A recognition that our relationship is stronger than any disagreement we may pursue. So when I say I'm sorry, know that it's coming from the heart, A symbol of my love and devotion, a brand new start ~ ✍️

Dreams have no expiry date

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Dreams have no expiry date. And life has no pause button. So instead of wasting your time whining, use it to assess what knowledge and additional skills you can gain. Memories remind us that nothing last forever, you can be happy today and sad tomorrow, time is precious and should not be wasted. Embrace every moment, savor every experience, and fill your days with love, laughter, and purpose. The clock keeps ticking, so make your days count. Live life with full of aspiration , experiences and don't take it for granted , life's had been colorful if you embrace the truest happiness in our soul ✨☘️♥️☘️