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Live

 “I'm not telling you to make the world better...I'm just telling you to live in it.  Not just to endure it, not just to suffer it, not just to pass through it, but to live in it.  To look at it.  To try to get the picture.  To live recklessly.  To take chances.  To make your own work and take pride in it.  To seize the moment.”

I choose to remember you

  I choose to remember you Not by how you hurt me But by how you taught me to heal Not by how you left me But by how you taught me to never abandon myself  Not by how you broke me But by how you taught me to rebuild myself  Not by how you dimmed my light   But by how you helped me to shine  Not by how you kept me trapped in a place of comfort  But by how you empowered me to leave my comfort zone  Not by how you left me feeling weak But by how you taught me what it means to be strong  Not by how you tried to control me  But by how you taught me to be free Not by who you told me who I was But by how you taught me to define myself  And above all I choose to remember you  Not by how you were unable to love me  But by how you taught me  To love myself.

We all bring different things to the world

 We all bring different things to the world. You possess your own unique talents, which differ  to the next person. Nobody thinks quite like you do, although many  may feel inspired by your ideas. Never compare or berate yourself because you're achievements aren't in line with those of another, You are doing just fine, moving at your own pace. We don't always peak at the same time as our close friends or family. Each has their own fruitful seasons. You are an asset to many, just as you are. Don't ever try to change yourself, you are what you were always meant to be. Your own unique experiences have molded you and each experience has given you wisdom that you can now pass on to another. You are a precious child of the Universe, walking your journey at your own pace. Your uniqueness is your blue print. Don't ever wish to be different or regret your life in any way. You bring something no one else can bring, because there are no duplicates of you. You are appreciated m...

Music

 Music gives a soul to the universe, wings to the mind, flight to the imagination, and life to everything." - Plato

Dare to dream!!

 Dare to dream!  If you did not have the capability to make your wildest wishes come true, your mind would not have the capacity to conjure such ideas in the first place.  There is no limitation on what you can potentially achieve, except for the limitation you choose to impose on your own imagination Throughout his life, Albert Einstein would retain the intuition and the awe of a child. He never lost his sense of wonder at the magic of nature's phenomena . . .  "People like you and me never grow old," he wrote a friend later in life. " We never cease to stand like curious children before the great mystery into which we were born.” Spread positivity and it will shine you back.  "

Live life Right

 Life is too short to waste on hate, anger or blame. I don’t want to spend my days fighting or holding grudges. Whatever time I have left, I want to use it wisely to live fully, love deeply, and find true happiness. There was a time when I let small things upset me. I cared too much about what others thought. I held onto anger and let it steal my peace. But I’ve learned that none of it really matters. Being bitter only hurts me. Blaming others doesn’t bring peace. Holding onto hate only makes the heart heavy. Now, I choose peace. I choose love. I choose to be happy with the life I have. I want to start each day with a thankful heart. I want to be around people who lift me up, not those who pull me down. Life’s beauty is in the small moments a sunny day, a kind word, a warm hug. These are the things that truly matter. I want to live with love in my heart, peace in my mind, and kindness in my words. In the end, life is about love, peace, and the memories we create. That’s the life I...

Loving me right!!

 I never imagined myself being loved perfectly until you came into my life and loved me with all your heart. You showed me that I am more than just a brokenhearted person, that I am enough, and that I deserve all the love that you're giving me. You never treated me less; instead, you made me feel like I was all that mattered to you, and every day, you tried your best to make me happy. I want you to know that I see you. I see your efforts and all the attention that you're giving me. I see you protecting me from things that may hurt me. I see you singing for me randomly, and I fall in love every time. I see you being patient with me, even though you have all the reason to be mad at me. I see every little thing you do to help me get away from sadness. I see you in every corner, not wanting to leave my side. I hope you know how much I love being with you. I feel safe with you; I'm at peace, and I couldn't believe to myself that someone has finally come to love me right. My ...

Create the child you want

 You create the child you want.  If you want them to be kind, show kindness.  If you want them to be smart, teach them.  If you want them to be caring, care for them.  If you want them to be a good friend, show them how you are a good friend.  Everything you pour into them they will absorb.  Every kind word, every compliment, how you describe them; all becomes their inner voice.  How you view them is how they will view themselves.  And how you treat them, is how they will treat themselves.  They will grow into everything you plant into them.

Meaning of Healing

 The moon taught me that I don't have to shine all the time to be whole,  And the flowers reminded me that even when I feel broken, I am still capable of blooming. Healing is not about being who I was before, but about loving who I'm becoming now, in the quiet, in the unfolding, moonlit, in-between ..

We’re moms. πŸ’›

 They say, “You’re just at home, what do you even do?” We raise little humans. We feed, clean, teach, comfort, love. We work 24/7 — no breaks, no salary, no days off. It’s not “doing nothing.” It’s doing everything. And yes, it’s exhausting. But we show up every day — because we’re moms. πŸ’›

Choose the right one!!

 Marry a man who wants to be a partner, not a man who just wants a wife to take care of him.   A man who wants to be a partner is willing to put the work in to make the relationship work, doesn’t need praise for being a parent or doing simple chores, and he doesn't always need mom to swoop in to save him at every diaper change, sibling argument, refusal to eat a meal-- everything.   A man who just wants a wife is a man who's only thinking about what she can do for him, and not what he needs to do for her and his family.   He’s a man who won’t bother to try with the kids because “she does it better,” and expects her to do everything around the house, only to offer criticism.   Marry a man who wants to be a partner, not a man who just wants a wife to take care of him.   Because a woman needs a partner in this life, not another child to care for.

Long to be children again?

 "What surprises me most about humankind is that we get bored of our childhood, rush to grow up, and long to be children again.  That we lose our health to make money and then lose our money to restore our health.  That by thinking anxiously about the future, we forget the present, such that we live in neither the present nor the future.  That we live as if we'll never die and die as though we've never lived." ( ✍️

STAYING THROUGH YOUR SILENCE

 LOVE IS WHEN THEY STAY THROUGH YOUR SILENCE You don’t always have the energy to talk. Sometimes your emotions feel too tangled, your thoughts too loud, and your heart too tired to explain. But the right kind of love — it doesn’t need explanations. It doesn’t ask for the perfect words. They just stay. Quietly. Close. They sit with you in the silence, not trying to fix anything — just letting you feel safe enough to fall apart. Because they understand that love isn’t always loud. Sometimes it’s just presence. Sometimes it’s the quiet warmth of knowing someone isn’t going to walk away — even when you’re at your quietest. And that kind of love? It teaches you that you don’t have to be okay to be loved fully.

Clean Image

 As a woman, I always try to keep my image pure. I don’t want other people to have the wrong point of view about me. I always make sure I'm an example of a good person being true to herself. It’s not about pretending to be perfect, but about carrying myself with dignity and respect because I know how easily people can judge, especially women. I choose to walk in a way that reflects my values, my upbringing, and the kind of heart I have. I try to stay kind, even when others are not. I try to stay calm, even when the world feels too loud. I remind myself that I don’t need to prove anything to anyone but I still want to live in a way that makes me proud when I look back. Being a good person doesn’t mean I never get tired or feel hurt. It just means I keep trying, every day, to be better. I want people to feel peace when they think of me. I want my presence to speak louder than any words they might hear about me. I protect my character like it’s something sacred, because it is. I’d rat...

Real love is a sanctuary

 We talk about love languages—words of affirmation, acts of service, quality time, physical touch, and receiving gifts. But before any of these can truly matter, there is one unspoken love language that forms the foundation of them all: safety. Love is not just in the words someone says, the gifts they give, or the time they spend with you. Love is in the way they make you feel—safe in their presence, safe to be yourself, safe to rest without fear. If you are living in a home where you do not feel safe, then love is not present. Because love does not hurt. Love does not control. Love does not walk on eggshells, shrink itself, or exist in survival mode. Real love is a sanctuary, not a battlefield. It is the feeling of exhaling after holding your breath for too long. It is knowing that you are seen, heard, and held—not manipulated, dismissed, or afraid.

Above everything

 I was afraid of being rejected Until I learned to never reject myself I was afraid of being abandoned Until I learned to never abandon myself I was afraid of the opinions of others Until I learned that they held no more weight than my own I was afraid of painful endings Until I realised that they were also new beginnings I was afraid of appearing weak Until I realised how strong I truly was I was afraid of being seen as small and unimportant Until I discovered my true power and potential I was afraid of being perceived as ugly Until I learned to fully appreciate my own beauty I was afraid of failure Until I learned that it was an illusion When viewed through the eyes of love, growth and learning I was afraid of feeling low Until I learned that it was the birthplace of brilliance And where my greatest transformation occurred I was afraid of change Until I realised it was an inevitable part of life In a world full of things temporary and fleeting I was afraid of being alone Until I ...

I am worthy.

 I used to search for my worth in somebody's eyes. But as I learned to love myself, I also realized that learning to appreciate myself is more valuable than begging for appreciation from other people. I have learned the hard way. I have learned to love myself while being alone . I have learned to appreciate myself when everybody makes me feel unwanted. I have learned to value myself when nobody else does. I have learned to see my worth when everybody says that I am worthless. I realized that not everyone can appreciate me. Not everyone can treat me right. Not everyone can see my worth. But that's okay. What's important is believing in myself that I am worthy.

Setting boundaries

 “Child,” my grandmother once said, her voice calm like the evening breeze, “when you draw a line in the sand, the right ones will step closer. The wrong ones will leave. Let them.” Setting boundaries doesn’t make you a bad person. It makes you a person who finally values their peace. You’re not being cold. You’re being clear. You’re not too much. You’re just finally enough — for yourself. The ones who get uncomfortable when you speak your truth were always more comfortable with your silence. Let them go. You weren’t made to bend endlessly just to keep others from breaking. You weren’t made to shrink so others could stretch. My grandmother used to stir her pot and say, “Water will always find its level. And so will people. If they leave when you stop pouring, they were only there to drink.” And she was right. Protecting your energy is not a betrayal — it’s survival. It’s love in motion. It’s peace in practice. So if someone walks away because you chose yourself, let them. You’re no...

Quiet Love

 Some loves are loud. Ours is quiet — But in that quiet, it echoes deeper than any words. It’s in the way you sit beside me in silence, your presence speaking volumes. In the way your fingers gently find mine, even when nothing needs to be said. You are the peace I didn’t know I was searching for. With you, my breaths slow down, my thoughts soften, my heart feels safe enough to unfold. There’s no pressure to be perfect with you. No need to fill the silence with noise. Because our silence is full — of understanding, of comfort, of love. You’ve shown me that real love isn’t made of grand declarations. It’s made of staying — especially when the world feels overwhelming. And that’s what you do best. You stay. And that makes all the difference. ❤️

Delayed success

delayed success is completely fine. perhaps, you were pressured by success itself. also by your friends' successful journey, by your parents' words, or by just the other people who are very close to their dreams. but life is not a race. if you failed today, you can still come back the next time you're ready. so, don't pressure yourself. it is okay to be late than to give up, and proving yourself that you're better but ended up failing. make those as your inspiration and just keep on fighting. you can make it. BETTER LATE THAN NEVER! you should be proud of yourself for still fighting and continuing. because eventually, you'll still have your winning time and moment. -  ✍️

Love is not loud

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I will bring Stars for you on earth!! Heaven for you , Will give (spend)my life for you. Oh!! But that will make them weak and  dependent upon you. How will they grow and learn in life? If you always Prove your love by your strength and actions,how will they become powerful and learn to love themselves and even you!! Love needs to be powerful.

Are marriages really made in heaven?

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Marriages  First few days...are heavenly. Feels like a dream come true. Feels like everything is beautiful.  roses blooming Birds chirping. Rains  Rainbows emerging. Feels like life has become a movie and we are the lead actors.Heroes and Heroines of this drama. Pictures are been taken. Ceremonies are going on. We are the centre of attraction.Everyone is watching us.All eyes on us. Nature is bestowing us with all the best things in the world. Gifts  and all abundances  from heaven  are been poured upon us.Everything is so overwhelming!! Life is playing a melodious music for us. There are smiles, happiness and celebrations going on day and night. Colors have become so bright. Sun and moon are shining brigher than ever before. Our horoscopes are showing we are the Lucky ones,stars and whole universe have come in our favours. luckier than everyone else There is unending season of festivity. All Paths are decorated with flowers. Our paths are illuminated with l...
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Secrets should never be used to protect someone else’s comfort

 Heavy on teaching my kids that safe adults don’t ask children to keep secrets. If someone ever says, “Don’t tell your mom,” or “Don’t tell your dad,” that’s a red flag. In our house, we talk about everything. No topic is too big, no feeling is too small, and no adult is above being questioned. I’m raising kids who know they can come to me. Always. No matter what. Because secrets should never be used to protect someone else’s comfort at the cost of my child’s safety.

Right person

 The right person won’t just love the easy parts of you. They’ll show up when your world feels too heavy to carry. When your heart is tired and your mind is messy. When you’re not your best, not even close. They won’t run when you fall apart. They’ll sit with you in the chaos and remind you you’re still lovable. Still worthy. Still enough. Love like that doesn’t wait for the perfect moment. It shows up in the middle of the storm and says, “I’m not going anywhere." Because real love isn’t looking for a flawless version of you. It’s looking for the truth. And the truth is, you deserve someone who stays.

Teaching children to live in balance

 Teach your children to appreciate and respect nature from the earliest moments of their lives. Let them walk barefoot on the earth, listen to the whispers of the trees, and gaze at the stars with wonder. Encourage them to see the magic in a blooming flower, the wisdom in the changing seasons, and the harmony in a bird’s flight. Help them understand that nature is not a resource to be used, but a living, breathing system that we are a part of—one that nurtures, heals, and sustains all life. When children grow to love and protect the natural world, they begin to understand their place within it—not as conquerors, but as caretakers. And in return, nature will provide for them—clean air to breathe, fresh water to drink, food to nourish them, and beauty to inspire their spirits. In teaching children to live in balance with the earth, we give them not just knowledge, but a future rooted in respect, gratitude and hope. ~ 

Frog climbing a tall tree

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  One day, a frog decided to climb a tall tree. As soon as he started, all the other frogs at the bottom began shouting: “Stop!” “It’s too high!” “You’ll never make it!” But the little frog kept going. Higher and higher, step by step, until he reached the top. Everyone was stunned. How did he do it? Turns out... He was deaf. He couldn’t hear a word they were saying. He thought they were cheering for him. Moral: Be deaf to negativity when you’re chasing something important. People will doubt you, discourage you, or project their fears on you. Don’t let that stop you. Keep climbing. Your belief in yourself matters more than their noise.

The Power of the Humble

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 The Power of the Humble: Philosophy of a Pawn The pawn is the simplest piece on the chessboard — and yet, in its modesty, a quiet greatness lives. It doesn’t leap like the knight, nor reach far like the bishop. It does not rule, does not command. It moves slowly, step by step, always forward — like one who chooses duty over desire. It never turns back, for there is no virtue in retreating into the past. It doesn’t rebel against its place. It accepts it with quiet dignity. And it is exactly this silent devotion to its role that makes its spirit unshakable. Each move it makes is an act of courage — not because it defies the enemy, but because it defies the fear of sacrifice. It can be taken, it may fall — but it keeps going. Because if it reaches the end… it transforms. Not out of greed, but through earned honor. Because the soul that walks straight and true across the battlefield, without abandoning its essence, has earned the right to rise. The pawn reminds us: True elevation is n...

Survival skills

Somewhere along the way, we turned survival skills into stereotypes. We painted chores with gender and forgot they were never roles—they were responsibilities. Cooking and cleaning aren’t male or female; they are human. Science shows that when men and women share domestic labor, children grow up healthier, partnerships become more balanced, and stress levels drop. But beyond statistics is something deeper: mutual respect. Dignity. The understanding that no one is above care. Let’s teach our sons to simmer a sauce with as much pride as a spreadsheet. Let’s teach our daughters that folding laundry isn’t their destiny—it’s just life maintenance. What’s a “basic skill” you learned that changed your perspective? Drop it below. 🍽️🧼

"Boiling Frog Syndrome.”

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Imagine placing a frog into a pot of cold water, then slowly turning up the heat. At first, the frog remains calm, barely reacting to the gradual change. It quietly adjusts its body temperature, slowly adapting to the warming water, thinking, “This is still okay. I can handle this.” As the water continues to heat, the frog tolerates the rising temperature, convincing itself that it’s still bearable. It adapts little by little, accepting discomfort bit by bit, believing it can survive whatever comes next. But here lies the danger: when the water becomes unbearably hot—too hot to endure—the frog finally recognizes the urgent need to escape. It realizes, “Now, I must jump out to save myself!” Unfortunately, by this time, the frog has already exhausted its energy simply enduring the increasing heat. It’s too weak, too depleted to make the leap to safety. Despite its desire to escape, the frog is trapped. Slowly, it succumbs to the boiling water, unable to save itself. The truth is, the fro...

Frog Who Climbed the Tree

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  The Frog Who Climbed the Tree Once upon a time in a lush green forest, there lived a small, bright-eyed frog named Timi. Unlike the other frogs in his pond who were content hopping around, catching flies, and croaking all day, Timi had a dream—he wanted to climb the tallest tree in the forest. Every morning, he would stare up at the mighty Iroko tree by the water’s edge, imagining the view from its top. The wind, the clouds, the birds—he wanted to see it all. But when he told the other frogs, they laughed. "Frogs don’t climb trees," said Kalo, the oldest frog. "Our legs are made for jumping, not climbing," croaked Mina. "You’ll fall and break your back!" warned Dada. Timi was hurt by their words, but his dream burned brighter than their doubt. He tried. He slipped. He fell. Again and again. The tree bark was rough, and his webbed feet weren’t made for gripping. Still, every fall was just another lesson. He studied the ants, the lizards, even the squirrel...

Embrace of nature

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  Bring your children into the embrace of nature— let them run through meadows, smell the wildflowers, chase butterflies, and lie beneath the open sky. Teach them to notice the delicate bloom of a flower and the quiet strength of a tree. These moments will root in their hearts, growing into a deep love and respect for the earth, so that one day, they will cherish and protect the beauty that first took their breath away. In nurturing their bond with the wild, we grow the stewards of tomorrow.

As Educators

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 As educators, we are often our own toughest critics. The pressure to be perfect, to compare ourselves to others, and to never stop can be overwhelming. But what if we could show ourselves the same kindness we give to our students? 🫢🏼 This is a gentle reminder that you are doing your best, and that's enough. It's okay to have moments of growth, feel overwhelmed, and take breaks when needed. The more we practice self-compassion, the better we can show up for ourselves, our students, and our communities. ✨

Moms need other moms.

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  Some days, motherhood feels so heavy. But I remind myself I was never meant to carry it all alone. Moms need other moms. We need the ones who have walked through it and still show up with open hearts. The ones who say “Me too” and actually mean it. The ones who drop off coffee without asking and cry with us on the hardest days. We need the moms who are in it with us. The ones who pray for us. The ones who remind us we are not failing. The ones who help us laugh when all we want to do is cry. We also need to be that for others. To cheer on new moms. To share what we’ve learned. To listen without judging. Motherhood was never meant to be lonely. We were made to carry each other. And I am forever thankful for the moms in my life who keep showing up.

You are worth celebrating

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 You are worth celebrating— Simply because of who you are. You’ve worked hard this year. You’ve stretched your mind, challenged your heart, and kept going—even on the tough days. You’ve learned new things, asked big questions, and grown in ways that don’t always show up on paper. And that matters. You don’t need a trophy or a ribbon to prove your progress. The way you’ve stayed true to yourself, the way you’ve kept trying— That’s something to be proud of. Maybe no one saw the small moments: When you chose kindness. When you kept going after a mistake. When you spoke up with courage or stayed quiet with wisdom. But I saw. I noticed. And I’m proud. The end of a season is a perfect time to pause and recognize how far you’ve come. Not because of a finish line, But because of the journey you’ve taken to get here. You are growing into someone strong, thoughtful, and brave. And that is always worth celebrating. . . . . . .

Breakthrough

 The breakthrough comes when we stop fighting the uncertainty. When we realize that the twists we didn't plan often lead to places better than we imagined. When we learn that strength isn't about controlling outcomes but adapting to surprises.

Your loved ones teach you Beautiful Lessons.

 I choose to remember you Not by how you hurt me But by how you taught me to heal Not by how you left me But by how you taught me to never abandon myself  Not by how you broke me But by how you taught me to rebuild myself  Not by how you dimmed my light   But by how you helped me to shine  Not by how you kept me trapped in a place of comfort  But by how you empowered me to leave my comfort zone  Not by how you left me feeling weak But by how you taught me what it means to be strong  Not by how you tried to control me  But by how you taught me to be free Not by who you told me who I was But by how you taught me to define myself  And above all I choose to remember you  Not by how you were unable to love me  But by how you taught me  To love myself.

Choose what you fight for wisely.

 I once asked a very successful woman to share her secret with me.  She smiled and said to me..  “I started succeeding when I started leaving small fights for small fighters.  I stopped fighting those who gossiped about me.. I stopped fighting with my in laws.. I stopped fighting for attention.. I stopped fighting to meet public expectation of me.. I stopped fighting for my rights with stupid people.. I left such fights for those who have nothing else to fight.. And I started fighting for  my vision,  my dreams,  my ideas and  my destiny.  The day I gave up on small fights is the day I started becoming successful.” Some fights are not worth your time. Choose what you fight for wisely. ~

Find joy in the ordinary.

 Don’t wait for weekends or vacations to have fun—fill each day with laughter, curiosity, and a little adventure. Life becomes extraordinary when you find joy in the ordinary.

Never grow old!!

  ..Throughout his life, Albert Einstein would retain the intuition and the awe of a child. He never lost his sense of wonder at the magic of nature's phenomena . . .  "People like you and me never grow old," he wrote a friend later in life. "We never cease to stand like curious children before the great mystery into which we were born.”

Well mannered

 Being well mannered is such a beautiful quality. Those that choose their words with consideration for the feelings of others, those that carry themselves with humanity and modesty. It's like elegance spills from their mouth when they speak. Kindness in speech and action shows a deep kind of beauty that can’t be seen with the eyes alone, it’s felt by the heart. When someone takes the time to speak gently, to listen with care and to treat others with respect, they bring peace into every room they enter. A well-mannered person doesn't try to be better than anyone. They simply live in a way that makes others feel safe, heard and respected. They don’t raise their voice to be noticed. They don’t use harsh words to prove a point. Instead, they lift others up with every word they speak. Their presence is calming, like a soft breeze. They always make people feel important without trying too hard and they make the world around them a little softer, a little warmer. Even in moments of di...

Different things

 We all bring different things to the world. You possess your own unique talents, which differ  to the next person. Nobody thinks quite like you do, although many  may feel inspired by your ideas. Never compare or berate yourself because you're achievements aren't in line with those of another, You are doing just fine, moving at your own pace. We don't always peak at the same time as our close friends or family. Each has their own fruitful seasons. You are an asset to many, just as you are. Don't ever try to change yourself, you are what you were always meant to be. Your own unique experiences have molded you and each experience has given you wisdom that you can now pass on to another. You are a precious child of the Universe, walking your journey at your own pace. Your uniqueness is your blue print. Don't ever wish to be different or regret your life in any way. You bring something no one else can bring, because there are no duplicates of you. You are appreciated m...

Family is not about blood

 Family is not about blood. It's about who's willing to hold your hand when you need it the most.

Dare to dream!

 Dare to dream!  If you did not have the capability to make your wildest wishes come true, your mind would not have the capacity to conjure such ideas in the first place.  There is no limitation on what you can potentially achieve, except for the limitation you choose to impose on your own imagination ..

Awe of a child

Throughout his life, Albert Einstein would retain the intuition and the awe of a child. He never lost his sense of wonder at the magic of nature's phenomena . . .  "People like you and me never grow old," he wrote a friend later in life. "We never cease to stand like curious children before the great mystery into which we were born.”

The past is like waste paper

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  "The past is like waste paper - it's done, gone, and serves only as a lesson. The present is like a newspaper-fresh, unfolding daily, and shaping your story. The future is like a question paper-filled with uncertainties, testing your choices and decisions. So, read and write your life's story carefully. If you neglect the lessons of the past, take the present for granted, or fail to prepare for the future, your life may end up like a tissue paper-used up and thrown away.  Make every moment count!" (Mindsets) Life is a story constantly being written—each day a fresh page, each choice a new line shaping the chapters to come.  The past holds lessons, not chains; it is there to teach, not to trap. The present is where life truly happens, a fleeting moment demanding our attention and presence.  And the future, though uncertain, is not to be feared but prepared for with intention and hope. If we dwell too much on what is gone, take today for granted, or step blindly into...

Happy Life

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  "If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal not people or things."

Purpose of music

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  The purpose of music is to create silence deep within you and the purpose of silence is to make you dynamic in life. So, silence that doesn’t make you dynamic is no good and that music which does not make space for silence, peace, harmony within one self is no good either.

Understanding develops with Love

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When you are in love, you are capable of learning everything and knowing things you had never dared even to think, because love is the key to understanding of all the mysteries.When you are in love, you are capable of learning everything and knowing things you had never dared even to think, because love is the key to understanding of all the mysteries.  ✍️ 

Communication is important

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  If you want a relationship to truly thrive, communication is everything.  But it’s not just about talking—it’s about how you communicate. It’s about showing up with emotional maturity, respect, honesty, kindness, empathy, and a genuine willingness to understand the person in front of you.  True communication is more than words; it’s also about being present. You can’t build trust with someone who isn’t fully there—physically, emotionally, or mentally. And without trust, it’s impossible to feel safe enough to express your heart.  It’s not just about saying how YOU feel •• it’s about listening and honoring how THEY feel too. It’s about creating a space where both of you feel valued and heard.  Relationships aren’t about avoiding problems—they’re about how you face them together. It’s about being a team, having each other’s back, and choosing to grow side by side.  Communication isn’t confrontation. It’s collaboration. It’s about working through challenges w...

Education

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  “Education is not to teach you but to awaken you.” It’s not about memorizing facts. It’s about lighting a fire inside you— To question, to feel, to truly see. Because the real purpose of learning isn’t to fill you with answers, but to help you remember who you are. #

Things to do in a Relationship

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  The things you should do in a relationship.  In a relationship, you should feel comfortable talking through your emotions.  You should feel encouraged to speak about what is going through your mind or what is concerning you. If you happen to have a problem with something your partner has said or done, you should feel comfortable talking to them about it to them without fear of the conversation escalating into a fight. You should feel confident that no matter what is wrong, you are going to overcome the problem and find a solution as a team because it's called a partnership. You shouldn’t feel compelled to hide what is bothering you in order to keep the peace.  You shouldn’t feel like you have to walk on eggshells, otherwise it will cause complications in the near future between the two of you.  You shouldn’t feel like you need to hide any part of yourself, because your partner should want to know how you’re feeling at all times.   Even if it hurts to...

A Friend

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  This kind of friend sees your success as something to celebrate , not something to be jealous of. When you’re struggling, they’re there to support you without judgment, offering a listening ear and comforting words . They genuinely want to see you happy and will help you grow in any way they can. A friend like this doesn’t just show up when it’s convenient, but stays by your side through thick and thin. Their kindness doesn’t have an agenda, it’s simply because they care about you. In their presence, you feel seen , valued , and understood . They help you believe in yourself and remind you of your strengths , even when you forget them. ✨πŸ’›

It comes back

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Rules for the Game of life

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  If life is a game,there are rules for this game. You can accelerate when the road is empty but You need to put a break and slow down when there is a bumb in your way. You should always be travelling on your side for smooth functioning of other traffics on road not seeing or interfering in the other side. You need to slow down when there is a need to turn. You should not have an urge to override your fellow co-travellor to win the race,you should focus on your journey ,there is no race.Enjoy your journey. You should not bruise, hurt others in your way in order to reach your destination early.There is a penalty and spiritual law that will teach you your lesson if you do so.You will have to return to pay back. You should follow the traffic rules of the signals that comes your way in order to avoid any accidents and smooth traffic management on road. You need to put on your helmet(protection)when you go on road. You should ride smooth and find your way out and not rush into anyone's ...

Karma - Law and Living

 Karma - Law and Living Life is NOT predestined as many of us believe. Instead one shapes his future by his own deeds (karma). ​Karma is our actions, whatever we do with our organs, even what we think in our mind is a Subtle form of Karma. As our thoughts are, so as our actions.  Karma can be understood as a cycle of action and re-action.  Why am I here?  Why was I born here in this family?  Why is she beautiful and me ugly?  Why someone attain outstanding worldly success?  Why is one person extremely rich and many are poor those does not have food enough to even survive?  Why did he do that to me?  Why this or that?  Does God decide the life for everyone?  NO. ​The answers lie in one eternal truth – based on the Law of Karma or the Karma Philosophy – that no one can escape the result of his karma.  Depending on the bad or good karma or action or deeds, one will suffer or enjoy, either in this or the next life. There is no end ...

Shine Naturally:unwind learned Beliefs

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  "A tulip doesn’t strive to impress anyone. It doesn’t struggle to be different than a rose. It doesn’t have to. It is different. And there’s room in the garden for every flower. You didn’t have to struggle to make your face different than anyone else’s on earth. It just is. You are unique because you were created that way. Look at little children in kindergarten. They’re all different without trying to be. As long as they’re unselfconsciously being themselves, they can’t help but shine. It’s only later, when children are taught to compete, to strive to be better than others, that their natural light becomes distorted."

Brotherhood is Real Love

  They understand that real love isn’t just about feelings, it’s about commitment, teamwork, and a shared vision. They push each other to grow, celebrate each other’s wins, and stand strong through the losses. They don’t let small arguments break them; instead, they communicate, learn, and come back stronger. They know that success isn’t just about money, it’s about building a life filled with trust, peace, and purpose. When one feels tired, the other motivates. When doubt creeps in, they remind each other why they started. They move with purpose, hand in hand, because they’re not just in love, they’re in this for the long run. πŸ’›✨

Leading with empathy

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Empathy means taking the time to really listen , not just hear, and trying to understand what your partner is feeling. It’s about putting yourself in their shoes and offering support, even if it’s just a comforting word or a quiet moment together. When you do this, you show that you care more about their happiness and well-being than about getting something in return. It’s about being there for each other in a way that’s not selfish but truly thoughtful. Love grows stronger when both partners feel understood and cared for. Leading with empathy creates a deeper connection, where both people feel valued and loved, not just by words, but by actions. ✨πŸ’›

Fit others into your schedule nicely

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  "The way someone fits you into their schedule says a lot about what they think of you." How someone prioritizes your presence within their schedule speaks volumes about the value they place on your relationship.  The manner in which individuals allocate their time reflects not only their commitments but also their regard for your importance in their life.  Being mindful of how someone includes you in their daily agenda unveils insights into the depth of connection and respect they hold for you. It's a subtle yet profound indicator of the significance you hold in their heart and the level of consideration they extend towards nurturing your bond.

Build bridges of knowledge.

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  "Correct me with compassion , not judgment. Educate me with kindness, and help my heart open.  In kindness and understanding, we find common ground. Let's grow together, in a spirit of love, and build bridges of knowledge. ✍️

Learning brings Positive Change.

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  Learning is the priceless learnings we gain from our experiences, mistakes and successes. They are like the treasures we gather in our journey throughout our life, guiding us towards growth and knowledge. Imagine learning as your teacher, who is always ready to impart knowledge and help you become a better version of yourself. For example, an important lesson is "learn from your mistakes. "This means that we should look at errors as opportunities to improve and grow instead of focusing on them." Another lesson is " Be kind to others . "This simple yet powerful read reminds us of the importance of empathy and compassion in our interactions with people." Learning isn't just about learning; it's about applying these lessons to bring positive change in our lives and the lives of those around us.

We never get back time

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  Life moves fast, and before we know it, years have passed. In the rush of daily responsibilities, we often forget to spend time with the people who truly matter. Work, stress, and other distractions take up our days, but in the end, it is the moments spent with loved ones that we will cherish the most. Time is one thing we can never get back. We assume there will always be another day, another opportunity to call, visit, or express love. But life is unpredictable. The people we love won’t be around forever, and neither will we. That’s why it is important to make time for them now. A simple phone call, a heartfelt message, or a visit can mean the world to someone. Spending time with family and friends doesn’t have to be extravagant, it’s the little moments that matter the most. Sharing a meal, laughing together, or just sitting in comfortable silence can create memories that last a lifetime. Don’t wait for special occasions to show love. Every day is an opportunity to express app...

𝑺𝒉𝒆 π’Šπ’” π’Žπ’š π’…π’‚π’–π’ˆπ’‰π’•π’†π’“.

 SHE IS MY DAUGHTER She finds the wonder in everything. She smiles and the world feels a bit brighter. She jumps first and asks questions later. She is my student and my greatest teacher. She is the reason I worry, and the reason my heart overflows with love. She tests limits and challenges me daily. She loves deeply and cares fiercely. She marches to the beat of her own drum. She lights up my life in every way. She is the reason I am irrevocably changed. 𝑺𝒉𝒆 π’Šπ’” π’Žπ’š π’…π’‚π’–π’ˆπ’‰π’•π’†π’“.

Meaning of life!!

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I believe the meaning of life is based on love, in the love of others, in the love of nature, in the love of beauty, in the love of truth. I think love is the greatest force that exists, the force that keeps us going, who gives us hope, that makes us believe that life makes sense.

What really matters!!

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  At the end of life, what really matters is not what we bought, but what we built. Material possessions may bring temporary joy, but the things we create,create memories, relationships, and positive impacts leave a lasting mark. It’s not about how much we own, but about how we use what we have to make a difference. What we got in life will fade away, but what we shared with others will always be remembered. Sharing kindness, love, and time with those around us brings true fulfillment. Simple acts of generosity, a helping hand, or a kind word can mean more than any expensive gift. Our competence and achievements may earn us recognition, but our character defines who we truly are. The way we treat others, our integrity, and our ability to remain kind in challenging times are what people will remember most. Success is often measured by wealth and status, but true significance is found in how we make others feel and the positive impact we create. Living a meaningful life doesn’t requ...

Concept of hard work and patience

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The concept of hard work and patience is incredibly challenging. The level of patience one needs to build something substantial, a child (as a parent), a business (as an entrepreneur), government, organization, or nonprofit is huge. It takes a lot of time and work, and most people just don't want that. They're convinced that there are shortcuts, shortcuts don't exist. The perception of them existing exists, but the reality in success is that you're going to struggle to build something meaningful. Nothing happens overnight.

πŸ’• Love πŸ’•

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  “Love is the only experience that replaces fear. Peace is the result. Love is the experience of taking in the breath of life, without fear when you know that you can handle all things in love, peace is the result.” ❤️

Your evolution shines brightly

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 "Let your progress be quiet, your growth unseen. Focus on becoming the best version of yourself without the need for validation.  When the time comes, your transformation will surprise everyone, and it will speak for itself." (Mindsets) May your journey towards self-improvement be a silent yet profound one, where your personal growth unfolds without fanfare or external validation.  By focusing on nurturing the best within you without seeking approval, you cultivate a strength that is pure and resilient.  When the moment of transformation arrives, it will be a revelation to those around you, a testament to the power of quiet perseverance and unwavering dedication.  Your evolution will shine brightly, speaking volumes about the depth of your inner work and the authenticity of your journey towards self-realization.

You don’t need a rich man

 You don’t need a rich man. You need someone with a provider mindset and a kind heart. Someone who is willing to work for a better future. Someone with dreams. Someone who takes responsibility, stays consistent, and doesn’t run when things get hard. Emotional intelligence matters too. A man who understands your feelings, respects your boundaries, and knows how to communicate. It’s in the way he treats you, listens to you, and makes you feel safe. At the end of the day, it’s not about how much he has… it is about how much he’s willing to do just to provide, stay, and make you genuinely happy.

Mother is a daughter’s best friend

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  A mother is a daughter’s first friend, her forever friend, and her fiercest protector.   She’s the one who teaches her how to be strong, soft, and everything in between.   Through every giggle, every tear shed, and every mistake made—she’s there.   In her, a daughter finds not only love, but a mirror of who she is and who she can become.   A mother is a daughter’s best friend… for life. ✍️