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Secrets should never be used to protect someone else’s comfort

 Heavy on teaching my kids that safe adults don’t ask children to keep secrets. If someone ever says, β€œDon’t tell your mom,” or β€œDon’t tell your dad,” that’s a red flag. In our house, we talk about everything. No topic is too big, no feeling is too small, and no adult is above being questioned. I’m raising kids who know they can come to me. Always. No matter what. Because secrets should never be used to protect someone else’s comfort at the cost of my child’s safety.

Right person

 The right person won’t just love the easy parts of you. They’ll show up when your world feels too heavy to carry. When your heart is tired and your mind is messy. When you’re not your best, not even close. They won’t run when you fall apart. They’ll sit with you in the chaos and remind you you’re still lovable. Still worthy. Still enough. Love like that doesn’t wait for the perfect moment. It shows up in the middle of the storm and says, β€œI’m not going anywhere." Because real love isn’t looking for a flawless version of you. It’s looking for the truth. And the truth is, you deserve someone who stays.

Teaching children to live in balance

 Teach your children to appreciate and respect nature from the earliest moments of their lives. Let them walk barefoot on the earth, listen to the whispers of the trees, and gaze at the stars with wonder. Encourage them to see the magic in a blooming flower, the wisdom in the changing seasons, and the harmony in a bird’s flight. Help them understand that nature is not a resource to be used, but a living, breathing system that we are a part ofβ€”one that nurtures, heals, and sustains all life. When children grow to love and protect the natural world, they begin to understand their place within itβ€”not as conquerors, but as caretakers. And in return, nature will provide for themβ€”clean air to breathe, fresh water to drink, food to nourish them, and beauty to inspire their spirits. In teaching children to live in balance with the earth, we give them not just knowledge, but a future rooted in respect, gratitude and hope. ~ 

Frog climbing a tall tree

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  One day, a frog decided to climb a tall tree. As soon as he started, all the other frogs at the bottom began shouting: β€œStop!” β€œIt’s too high!” β€œYou’ll never make it!” But the little frog kept going. Higher and higher, step by step, until he reached the top. Everyone was stunned. How did he do it? Turns out... He was deaf. He couldn’t hear a word they were saying. He thought they were cheering for him. Moral: Be deaf to negativity when you’re chasing something important. People will doubt you, discourage you, or project their fears on you. Don’t let that stop you. Keep climbing. Your belief in yourself matters more than their noise.

The Power of the Humble

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 The Power of the Humble: Philosophy of a Pawn The pawn is the simplest piece on the chessboard β€” and yet, in its modesty, a quiet greatness lives. It doesn’t leap like the knight, nor reach far like the bishop. It does not rule, does not command. It moves slowly, step by step, always forward β€” like one who chooses duty over desire. It never turns back, for there is no virtue in retreating into the past. It doesn’t rebel against its place. It accepts it with quiet dignity. And it is exactly this silent devotion to its role that makes its spirit unshakable. Each move it makes is an act of courage β€” not because it defies the enemy, but because it defies the fear of sacrifice. It can be taken, it may fall β€” but it keeps going. Because if it reaches the end… it transforms. Not out of greed, but through earned honor. Because the soul that walks straight and true across the battlefield, without abandoning its essence, has earned the right to rise. The pawn reminds us: True elevation is n...

Survival skills

Somewhere along the way, we turned survival skills into stereotypes. We painted chores with gender and forgot they were never rolesβ€”they were responsibilities. Cooking and cleaning aren’t male or female; they are human. Science shows that when men and women share domestic labor, children grow up healthier, partnerships become more balanced, and stress levels drop. But beyond statistics is something deeper: mutual respect. Dignity. The understanding that no one is above care. Let’s teach our sons to simmer a sauce with as much pride as a spreadsheet. Let’s teach our daughters that folding laundry isn’t their destinyβ€”it’s just life maintenance. What’s a β€œbasic skill” you learned that changed your perspective? Drop it below. 🍽️🧼

"Boiling Frog Syndrome.”

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Imagine placing a frog into a pot of cold water, then slowly turning up the heat. At first, the frog remains calm, barely reacting to the gradual change. It quietly adjusts its body temperature, slowly adapting to the warming water, thinking, β€œThis is still okay. I can handle this.” As the water continues to heat, the frog tolerates the rising temperature, convincing itself that it’s still bearable. It adapts little by little, accepting discomfort bit by bit, believing it can survive whatever comes next. But here lies the danger: when the water becomes unbearably hotβ€”too hot to endureβ€”the frog finally recognizes the urgent need to escape. It realizes, β€œNow, I must jump out to save myself!” Unfortunately, by this time, the frog has already exhausted its energy simply enduring the increasing heat. It’s too weak, too depleted to make the leap to safety. Despite its desire to escape, the frog is trapped. Slowly, it succumbs to the boiling water, unable to save itself. The truth is, the fro...

Frog Who Climbed the Tree

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  The Frog Who Climbed the Tree Once upon a time in a lush green forest, there lived a small, bright-eyed frog named Timi. Unlike the other frogs in his pond who were content hopping around, catching flies, and croaking all day, Timi had a dreamβ€”he wanted to climb the tallest tree in the forest. Every morning, he would stare up at the mighty Iroko tree by the water’s edge, imagining the view from its top. The wind, the clouds, the birdsβ€”he wanted to see it all. But when he told the other frogs, they laughed. "Frogs don’t climb trees," said Kalo, the oldest frog. "Our legs are made for jumping, not climbing," croaked Mina. "You’ll fall and break your back!" warned Dada. Timi was hurt by their words, but his dream burned brighter than their doubt. He tried. He slipped. He fell. Again and again. The tree bark was rough, and his webbed feet weren’t made for gripping. Still, every fall was just another lesson. He studied the ants, the lizards, even the squirrel...

Embrace of nature

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  Bring your children into the embrace of natureβ€” let them run through meadows, smell the wildflowers, chase butterflies, and lie beneath the open sky. Teach them to notice the delicate bloom of a flower and the quiet strength of a tree. These moments will root in their hearts, growing into a deep love and respect for the earth, so that one day, they will cherish and protect the beauty that first took their breath away. In nurturing their bond with the wild, we grow the stewards of tomorrow.

As Educators

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 As educators, we are often our own toughest critics. The pressure to be perfect, to compare ourselves to others, and to never stop can be overwhelming. But what if we could show ourselves the same kindness we give to our students? 🫢🏼 This is a gentle reminder that you are doing your best, and that's enough. It's okay to have moments of growth, feel overwhelmed, and take breaks when needed. The more we practice self-compassion, the better we can show up for ourselves, our students, and our communities. ✨

Moms need other moms.

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  Some days, motherhood feels so heavy. But I remind myself I was never meant to carry it all alone. Moms need other moms. We need the ones who have walked through it and still show up with open hearts. The ones who say β€œMe too” and actually mean it. The ones who drop off coffee without asking and cry with us on the hardest days. We need the moms who are in it with us. The ones who pray for us. The ones who remind us we are not failing. The ones who help us laugh when all we want to do is cry. We also need to be that for others. To cheer on new moms. To share what we’ve learned. To listen without judging. Motherhood was never meant to be lonely. We were made to carry each other. And I am forever thankful for the moms in my life who keep showing up.

You are worth celebrating

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 You are worth celebratingβ€” Simply because of who you are. You’ve worked hard this year. You’ve stretched your mind, challenged your heart, and kept goingβ€”even on the tough days. You’ve learned new things, asked big questions, and grown in ways that don’t always show up on paper. And that matters. You don’t need a trophy or a ribbon to prove your progress. The way you’ve stayed true to yourself, the way you’ve kept tryingβ€” That’s something to be proud of. Maybe no one saw the small moments: When you chose kindness. When you kept going after a mistake. When you spoke up with courage or stayed quiet with wisdom. But I saw. I noticed. And I’m proud. The end of a season is a perfect time to pause and recognize how far you’ve come. Not because of a finish line, But because of the journey you’ve taken to get here. You are growing into someone strong, thoughtful, and brave. And that is always worth celebrating. . . . . . .

Breakthrough

 The breakthrough comes when we stop fighting the uncertainty. When we realize that the twists we didn't plan often lead to places better than we imagined. When we learn that strength isn't about controlling outcomes but adapting to surprises.

Your loved ones teach you Beautiful Lessons.

 I choose to remember you Not by how you hurt me But by how you taught me to heal Not by how you left me But by how you taught me to never abandon myself  Not by how you broke me But by how you taught me to rebuild myself  Not by how you dimmed my light   But by how you helped me to shine  Not by how you kept me trapped in a place of comfort  But by how you empowered me to leave my comfort zone  Not by how you left me feeling weak But by how you taught me what it means to be strong  Not by how you tried to control me  But by how you taught me to be free Not by who you told me who I was But by how you taught me to define myself  And above all I choose to remember you  Not by how you were unable to love me  But by how you taught me  To love myself.

Choose what you fight for wisely.

 I once asked a very successful woman to share her secret with me.  She smiled and said to me..  β€œI started succeeding when I started leaving small fights for small fighters.  I stopped fighting those who gossiped about me.. I stopped fighting with my in laws.. I stopped fighting for attention.. I stopped fighting to meet public expectation of me.. I stopped fighting for my rights with stupid people.. I left such fights for those who have nothing else to fight.. And I started fighting for  my vision,  my dreams,  my ideas and  my destiny.  The day I gave up on small fights is the day I started becoming successful.” Some fights are not worth your time. Choose what you fight for wisely. ~

Find joy in the ordinary.

 Don’t wait for weekends or vacations to have funβ€”fill each day with laughter, curiosity, and a little adventure. Life becomes extraordinary when you find joy in the ordinary.

Never grow old!!

  ..Throughout his life, Albert Einstein would retain the intuition and the awe of a child. He never lost his sense of wonder at the magic of nature's phenomena . . .  "People like you and me never grow old," he wrote a friend later in life. "We never cease to stand like curious children before the great mystery into which we were born.”

Well mannered

 Being well mannered is such a beautiful quality. Those that choose their words with consideration for the feelings of others, those that carry themselves with humanity and modesty. It's like elegance spills from their mouth when they speak. Kindness in speech and action shows a deep kind of beauty that can’t be seen with the eyes alone, it’s felt by the heart. When someone takes the time to speak gently, to listen with care and to treat others with respect, they bring peace into every room they enter. A well-mannered person doesn't try to be better than anyone. They simply live in a way that makes others feel safe, heard and respected. They don’t raise their voice to be noticed. They don’t use harsh words to prove a point. Instead, they lift others up with every word they speak. Their presence is calming, like a soft breeze. They always make people feel important without trying too hard and they make the world around them a little softer, a little warmer. Even in moments of di...

Different things

 We all bring different things to the world. You possess your own unique talents, which differ  to the next person. Nobody thinks quite like you do, although many  may feel inspired by your ideas. Never compare or berate yourself because you're achievements aren't in line with those of another, You are doing just fine, moving at your own pace. We don't always peak at the same time as our close friends or family. Each has their own fruitful seasons. You are an asset to many, just as you are. Don't ever try to change yourself, you are what you were always meant to be. Your own unique experiences have molded you and each experience has given you wisdom that you can now pass on to another. You are a precious child of the Universe, walking your journey at your own pace. Your uniqueness is your blue print. Don't ever wish to be different or regret your life in any way. You bring something no one else can bring, because there are no duplicates of you. You are appreciated m...

Family is not about blood

 Family is not about blood. It's about who's willing to hold your hand when you need it the most.

Dare to dream!

 Dare to dream!  If you did not have the capability to make your wildest wishes come true, your mind would not have the capacity to conjure such ideas in the first place.  There is no limitation on what you can potentially achieve, except for the limitation you choose to impose on your own imagination ..

Awe of a child

Throughout his life, Albert Einstein would retain the intuition and the awe of a child. He never lost his sense of wonder at the magic of nature's phenomena . . .  "People like you and me never grow old," he wrote a friend later in life. "We never cease to stand like curious children before the great mystery into which we were born.”

The past is like waste paper

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  "The past is like waste paper - it's done, gone, and serves only as a lesson. The present is like a newspaper-fresh, unfolding daily, and shaping your story. The future is like a question paper-filled with uncertainties, testing your choices and decisions. So, read and write your life's story carefully. If you neglect the lessons of the past, take the present for granted, or fail to prepare for the future, your life may end up like a tissue paper-used up and thrown away.  Make every moment count!" (Mindsets) Life is a story constantly being writtenβ€”each day a fresh page, each choice a new line shaping the chapters to come.  The past holds lessons, not chains; it is there to teach, not to trap. The present is where life truly happens, a fleeting moment demanding our attention and presence.  And the future, though uncertain, is not to be feared but prepared for with intention and hope. If we dwell too much on what is gone, take today for granted, or step blindly into...

Happy Life

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  "If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal not people or things."

Purpose of music

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  The purpose of music is to create silence deep within you and the purpose of silence is to make you dynamic in life. So, silence that doesn’t make you dynamic is no good and that music which does not make space for silence, peace, harmony within one self is no good either.

Understanding develops with Love

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When you are in love, you are capable of learning everything and knowing things you had never dared even to think, because love is the key to understanding of all the mysteries.When you are in love, you are capable of learning everything and knowing things you had never dared even to think, because love is the key to understanding of all the mysteries.  βœοΈ 

Communication is important

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  If you want a relationship to truly thrive, communication is everything.  But it’s not just about talkingβ€”it’s about how you communicate. It’s about showing up with emotional maturity, respect, honesty, kindness, empathy, and a genuine willingness to understand the person in front of you.  True communication is more than words; it’s also about being present. You can’t build trust with someone who isn’t fully thereβ€”physically, emotionally, or mentally. And without trust, it’s impossible to feel safe enough to express your heart.  It’s not just about saying how YOU feel β€’β€’ it’s about listening and honoring how THEY feel too. It’s about creating a space where both of you feel valued and heard.  Relationships aren’t about avoiding problemsβ€”they’re about how you face them together. It’s about being a team, having each other’s back, and choosing to grow side by side.  Communication isn’t confrontation. It’s collaboration. It’s about working through challenges w...

Education

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  β€œEducation is not to teach you but to awaken you.” It’s not about memorizing facts. It’s about lighting a fire inside youβ€” To question, to feel, to truly see. Because the real purpose of learning isn’t to fill you with answers, but to help you remember who you are. #

Things to do in a Relationship

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  The things you should do in a relationship.  In a relationship, you should feel comfortable talking through your emotions.  You should feel encouraged to speak about what is going through your mind or what is concerning you. If you happen to have a problem with something your partner has said or done, you should feel comfortable talking to them about it to them without fear of the conversation escalating into a fight. You should feel confident that no matter what is wrong, you are going to overcome the problem and find a solution as a team because it's called a partnership. You shouldn’t feel compelled to hide what is bothering you in order to keep the peace.  You shouldn’t feel like you have to walk on eggshells, otherwise it will cause complications in the near future between the two of you.  You shouldn’t feel like you need to hide any part of yourself, because your partner should want to know how you’re feeling at all times.   Even if it hurts to...

A Friend

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  This kind of friend sees your success as something to celebrate , not something to be jealous of. When you’re struggling, they’re there to support you without judgment, offering a listening ear and comforting words . They genuinely want to see you happy and will help you grow in any way they can. A friend like this doesn’t just show up when it’s convenient, but stays by your side through thick and thin. Their kindness doesn’t have an agenda, it’s simply because they care about you. In their presence, you feel seen , valued , and understood . They help you believe in yourself and remind you of your strengths , even when you forget them. βœ¨πŸ’›

It comes back

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Rules for the Game of life

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  If life is a game,there are rules for this game. You can accelerate when the road is empty but You need to put a break and slow down when there is a bumb in your way. You should always be travelling on your side for smooth functioning of other traffics on road not seeing or interfering in the other side. You need to slow down when there is a need to turn. You should not have an urge to override your fellow co-travellor to win the race,you should focus on your journey ,there is no race.Enjoy your journey. You should not bruise, hurt others in your way in order to reach your destination early.There is a penalty and spiritual law that will teach you your lesson if you do so.You will have to return to pay back. You should follow the traffic rules of the signals that comes your way in order to avoid any accidents and smooth traffic management on road. You need to put on your helmet(protection)when you go on road. You should ride smooth and find your way out and not rush into anyone's ...

Karma - Law and Living

 Karma - Law and Living Life is NOT predestined as many of us believe. Instead one shapes his future by his own deeds (karma). ​Karma is our actions, whatever we do with our organs, even what we think in our mind is a Subtle form of Karma. As our thoughts are, so as our actions.  Karma can be understood as a cycle of action and re-action.  Why am I here?  Why was I born here in this family?  Why is she beautiful and me ugly?  Why someone attain outstanding worldly success?  Why is one person extremely rich and many are poor those does not have food enough to even survive?  Why did he do that to me?  Why this or that?  Does God decide the life for everyone?  NO. ​The answers lie in one eternal truth – based on the Law of Karma or the Karma Philosophy – that no one can escape the result of his karma.  Depending on the bad or good karma or action or deeds, one will suffer or enjoy, either in this or the next life. There is no end ...

Shine Naturally:unwind learned Beliefs

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  "A tulip doesn’t strive to impress anyone. It doesn’t struggle to be different than a rose. It doesn’t have to. It is different. And there’s room in the garden for every flower. You didn’t have to struggle to make your face different than anyone else’s on earth. It just is. You are unique because you were created that way. Look at little children in kindergarten. They’re all different without trying to be. As long as they’re unselfconsciously being themselves, they can’t help but shine. It’s only later, when children are taught to compete, to strive to be better than others, that their natural light becomes distorted."

Brotherhood is Real Love

  They understand that real love isn’t just about feelings, it’s about commitment, teamwork, and a shared vision. They push each other to grow, celebrate each other’s wins, and stand strong through the losses. They don’t let small arguments break them; instead, they communicate, learn, and come back stronger. They know that success isn’t just about money, it’s about building a life filled with trust, peace, and purpose. When one feels tired, the other motivates. When doubt creeps in, they remind each other why they started. They move with purpose, hand in hand, because they’re not just in love, they’re in this for the long run. πŸ’›βœ¨

Leading with empathy

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Empathy means taking the time to really listen , not just hear, and trying to understand what your partner is feeling. It’s about putting yourself in their shoes and offering support, even if it’s just a comforting word or a quiet moment together. When you do this, you show that you care more about their happiness and well-being than about getting something in return. It’s about being there for each other in a way that’s not selfish but truly thoughtful. Love grows stronger when both partners feel understood and cared for. Leading with empathy creates a deeper connection, where both people feel valued and loved, not just by words, but by actions. βœ¨πŸ’›

Fit others into your schedule nicely

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  "The way someone fits you into their schedule says a lot about what they think of you." How someone prioritizes your presence within their schedule speaks volumes about the value they place on your relationship.  The manner in which individuals allocate their time reflects not only their commitments but also their regard for your importance in their life.  Being mindful of how someone includes you in their daily agenda unveils insights into the depth of connection and respect they hold for you. It's a subtle yet profound indicator of the significance you hold in their heart and the level of consideration they extend towards nurturing your bond.

Build bridges of knowledge.

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  "Correct me with compassion , not judgment. Educate me with kindness, and help my heart open.  In kindness and understanding, we find common ground. Let's grow together, in a spirit of love, and build bridges of knowledge. ✍️

Learning brings Positive Change.

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  Learning is the priceless learnings we gain from our experiences, mistakes and successes. They are like the treasures we gather in our journey throughout our life, guiding us towards growth and knowledge. Imagine learning as your teacher, who is always ready to impart knowledge and help you become a better version of yourself. For example, an important lesson is "learn from your mistakes. "This means that we should look at errors as opportunities to improve and grow instead of focusing on them." Another lesson is " Be kind to others . "This simple yet powerful read reminds us of the importance of empathy and compassion in our interactions with people." Learning isn't just about learning; it's about applying these lessons to bring positive change in our lives and the lives of those around us.

We never get back time

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  Life moves fast, and before we know it, years have passed. In the rush of daily responsibilities, we often forget to spend time with the people who truly matter. Work, stress, and other distractions take up our days, but in the end, it is the moments spent with loved ones that we will cherish the most. Time is one thing we can never get back. We assume there will always be another day, another opportunity to call, visit, or express love. But life is unpredictable. The people we love won’t be around forever, and neither will we. That’s why it is important to make time for them now. A simple phone call, a heartfelt message, or a visit can mean the world to someone. Spending time with family and friends doesn’t have to be extravagant, it’s the little moments that matter the most. Sharing a meal, laughing together, or just sitting in comfortable silence can create memories that last a lifetime. Don’t wait for special occasions to show love. Every day is an opportunity to express app...

𝑺𝒉𝒆 π’Šπ’” π’Žπ’š π’…π’‚π’–π’ˆπ’‰π’•π’†π’“.

 SHE IS MY DAUGHTER She finds the wonder in everything. She smiles and the world feels a bit brighter. She jumps first and asks questions later. She is my student and my greatest teacher. She is the reason I worry, and the reason my heart overflows with love. She tests limits and challenges me daily. She loves deeply and cares fiercely. She marches to the beat of her own drum. She lights up my life in every way. She is the reason I am irrevocably changed. 𝑺𝒉𝒆 π’Šπ’” π’Žπ’š π’…π’‚π’–π’ˆπ’‰π’•π’†π’“.

Meaning of life!!

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I believe the meaning of life is based on love, in the love of others, in the love of nature, in the love of beauty, in the love of truth. I think love is the greatest force that exists, the force that keeps us going, who gives us hope, that makes us believe that life makes sense.

What really matters!!

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  At the end of life, what really matters is not what we bought, but what we built. Material possessions may bring temporary joy, but the things we create,create memories, relationships, and positive impacts leave a lasting mark. It’s not about how much we own, but about how we use what we have to make a difference. What we got in life will fade away, but what we shared with others will always be remembered. Sharing kindness, love, and time with those around us brings true fulfillment. Simple acts of generosity, a helping hand, or a kind word can mean more than any expensive gift. Our competence and achievements may earn us recognition, but our character defines who we truly are. The way we treat others, our integrity, and our ability to remain kind in challenging times are what people will remember most. Success is often measured by wealth and status, but true significance is found in how we make others feel and the positive impact we create. Living a meaningful life doesn’t requ...

Concept of hard work and patience

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The concept of hard work and patience is incredibly challenging. The level of patience one needs to build something substantial, a child (as a parent), a business (as an entrepreneur), government, organization, or nonprofit is huge. It takes a lot of time and work, and most people just don't want that. They're convinced that there are shortcuts, shortcuts don't exist. The perception of them existing exists, but the reality in success is that you're going to struggle to build something meaningful. Nothing happens overnight.

πŸ’• Love πŸ’•

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  β€œLove is the only experience that replaces fear. Peace is the result. Love is the experience of taking in the breath of life, without fear when you know that you can handle all things in love, peace is the result.” ❀️

Your evolution shines brightly

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 "Let your progress be quiet, your growth unseen. Focus on becoming the best version of yourself without the need for validation.  When the time comes, your transformation will surprise everyone, and it will speak for itself." (Mindsets) May your journey towards self-improvement be a silent yet profound one, where your personal growth unfolds without fanfare or external validation.  By focusing on nurturing the best within you without seeking approval, you cultivate a strength that is pure and resilient.  When the moment of transformation arrives, it will be a revelation to those around you, a testament to the power of quiet perseverance and unwavering dedication.  Your evolution will shine brightly, speaking volumes about the depth of your inner work and the authenticity of your journey towards self-realization.

You don’t need a rich man

 You don’t need a rich man. You need someone with a provider mindset and a kind heart. Someone who is willing to work for a better future. Someone with dreams. Someone who takes responsibility, stays consistent, and doesn’t run when things get hard. Emotional intelligence matters too. A man who understands your feelings, respects your boundaries, and knows how to communicate. It’s in the way he treats you, listens to you, and makes you feel safe. At the end of the day, it’s not about how much he has… it is about how much he’s willing to do just to provide, stay, and make you genuinely happy.

Mother is a daughter’s best friend

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  A mother is a daughter’s first friend, her forever friend, and her fiercest protector.   She’s the one who teaches her how to be strong, soft, and everything in between.   Through every giggle, every tear shed, and every mistake madeβ€”she’s there.   In her, a daughter finds not only love, but a mirror of who she is and who she can become.   A mother is a daughter’s best friend… for life. ✍️

Rare Friends

 When you have friend who check on you, supports you, and wants nothing but the best for you without any hidden motives is a rare gift. In a world where many relationships are built on convenience and self-interest, genuine friends stand out like gems. Such souls are hard to find. These friends don’t call or message because they need something. They reach out simply to see how you’re doing. They celebrate your wins, comfort you during tough times, and offer honest advice when you need it. Their care is pure, without expecting anything in return. These friends are like family. They see the best in you, even when you can’t see it yourself. They remind you of your worth, encourage you to chase your dreams, and offer comfort when life gets tough. They respect your boundaries and understand your silence, yet they are always just a call away. If you have such a friend, hold onto them. Nurture the relationship, express your gratitude, and be just as supportive in return. True friendships ...

Palaces of Gold

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  It’s easy to judge people based on their homes. Some may assume that those who live in big houses are happier or more successful, while those in small homes are struggling or unhappy. But the truth is, happiness is not measured by square footage or fancy furniture. Sometimes, the smallest homes are filled with the greatest love. In these spaces, families come together, share meals, and create memories. Laughter echoes through simple rooms, and kindness fills every corner. There may not be luxurious decorations, but the warmth and care within those walls make it feel like a palace. On the other hand, a mansion can be cold and empty without genuine love. Expensive things may fill the space, but material possessions can’t replace the joy that comes from meaningful relationships. A big house doesn’t guarantee happiness, and a small home doesn’t mean sadness. People who live humbly often appreciate life’s simple joys. They value each other’s presence and celebrate moments that money c...

Kindness

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  "The kindest people are not born that way, they are made. They are the ones that have experienced so much at the hands of life, they are the ones who have dug themselves out of the dark, who have fought to turn every loss into a lesson. The kindest people do not just exist – they choose to soften where circumstance has tried to harden them, they choose to believe in goodness, because they have seen firsthand why compassion is so necessary. They have seen firsthand why tenderness is so important in this world."

Spirituality disciplined

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  It's time to get real and talk about what it means to be truly spiritually disciplined and how this is the only way we together are going to quicken this planet's awakening process. What's required is YOUR EXCELLENCE (divine embodiment /self-realization).  ✨ I'm not saying that Divine grace isn't applied unless we become spiritual masters (experts, not perfect only God is perfect). ✨ I'm not saying this is accomplished in a day. Relax. Just take it ONE STEP AT A TIME. These practices are to make your life EASIER, not harder but it may not feel that way at first. πŸ‰What I AM saying is that we only pretend to be devotees to the Supreme Lord / Christ / Source if all of our efforts are meager, powerless, and uninspiring. Constantly dwelling on your sinfulness will make you absolutely USELESS, like a moping muppet on marijuana.  πŸ‰What I AM saying, is that MORE is required of us to actually CHANGE this world. We have a responsibility to be OUR BEST. This message i...

Brave girl!!

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  Brave girl, don’t shelter that big heart of yoursβ€”let it shine. The world may sometimes feel overwhelming, and there will be moments when fear whispers for you to shrink, to hold back, to blend in. But don’t listen. Because the world doesn’t need a quieter version of you. It needs your boldness, your kindness, your dreams, and your fire. Leap out into this big, beautiful world with arms wide open. Embrace new adventures. Speak up for what’s right. Chase your wildest dreams. Love deeply, laugh loudly, and never apologize for being exactly who you are. Because, brave girl… ✨ You are amazing. ✨ You are unlike anyone else. ✨ You are exactly what this world needs. So stand tall. Shine bright. And never forgetβ€”you were made to take up space, to make a difference, and to be fearlessly you. . , . . . .

Breakthrough

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We grow up watching movies where everything wraps up nicely by the end. Good wins, couples unite, and questions get answered. Then real life happens, and we discover it's nothing like that. Relationships end without closure. Dream jobs sometimes turn into disappointments. Our five-year plans get interrupted by unexpected turns – both good and bad. At first, this messiness feels like we're doing life wrong. The breakthrough comes when we stop fighting the uncertainty . When we realize that the twists we didn't plan often lead to places better than we imagined. When we learn that strength isn't about controlling outcomes but adapting to surprises. Maybe the real point isn't to create a perfect story but to fully live the unpredictable one we're given – with all its crossed-out lines, unexpected chapters, and unfinished sentences.

Give yourself a second chance.

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  "I helped myself to start a new life , to forget all my wound's, and save my direction in a place I used to be and  I wiped my tears. I put balm on the wounds. I put Band- Aids where my heart still hurt. I took my time for made things makes me smile. I read books that soothed my soul, listened to music that calmed my nerves, watched movies that made me comport Step by step. Piece by piece.  I pulled myself together and gave myself a second chance.  Because I knew that if I didn't do it, no one would."

Allow Life to Shape you!!

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"The older I get the more I realize  that time doesn't heal all wounds. There are things in life that will always hurt or be tender. I am releasing the idea that I must get over things to find happiness. I can be happy and still have some  things in my life that hurt . With time, I have come to understand that healing doesn’t mean erasing, and moving forward doesn’t mean forgetting. Some wounds do not disappear; they soften, they shift, but they remain a part of me. And that’s okay.  I no longer wait for the day when every scar fades or every ache disappears to allow myself joy.  Happiness and hurt can coexistβ€”one does not cancel out the other. I can laugh while carrying the weight of what once broke me. I can love deeply, even with a heart that has known pain.  Life is not about "getting over" everything; it is about learning to hold both sorrow and joy with grace, allowing them to shape me without defining me.   β€β˜€

Happiness

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  One day you will realize that happiness is not what your house looks like, but how you love the people within its walls.  Happiness is not finding success by a certain time, but finding something you love so much that time itself seems to disappear. Happiness is not thinking you have earned the world's approval, but waking up each day and feeling so at peace within your own skin, quietly anticipating the day ahead, unconcerned with how you are perceived. Happiness is not having the best of everything, but the ability to make the best of anything.  Happiness is knowing you did what you could with what you were given. Happiness is not something that comes to us when every problem is solved and all things are perfectly in place, but in the shining silver linings that remind us of the light of day is always there, if we slow down enough to notice. ✍🏻

We are made of love and happiness

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  We think we're made of numbers. Percentages on tests, pounds on a scale, "likes" on a photo, price tags on clothes. But we're not. We are made of love and happiness and the way we laugh. We're made of good memories and late nights and past-curfews. We have more substance than numbers. You're not what you look like. You're the music you listen to, the shows you watch, the art you make, the flowers in your hair, your favorite blanket. You're not the pimple on your nose or the pudge on your stomach. You're not your thighs or your teeth. You're your favorite band, you're the mismatch socks you wear. You're what you love, you're not what you look like or the body you are in.

Valuable inheritances of age.

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  "Time and good friends are two things that get more valuable the older you get." With the passing of years, the worth of time and true companionship only grows.  The fleeting moments of youth, once abundant, become precious jewels, each one carefully treasured. Simultaneously, the bonds of friendship, forged through shared experiences and weathered storms, deepen and strengthen, offering unwavering support and profound understanding in a way that younger years simply couldn't provide.  These two gifts, time and friendship, are the most valuable inheritances of age.